Unappreciated Vent
So my SO has asked me to look for a job due to the 3 additions we added to our household when he got custody of his 3 kids plus my 1 that's 4.
He has a sick mother in another state and is trying to purchase a home out there for his mother with a sibling. I have an interview tomorrow and I just took and passed 5 tests for another job, so needless to say I'm on the road to employment. He asked me if he could go to his moms and I watch the kids I said ok (which quite frankly my soul wanted to say no lol) I'm pregnant and patient less for kids who hold no genuine respect towards me. Anyway I agreed and I said I will probably be working soon so you may want to arrange that as soon as possible. Im in the middle of taking one of my tests for the job which was timed and he knew that and asked me to get something for him. I said Im taking a timed test he said "I'm sick of you!" I grabbed it for him and said what are you sick of i'm taking a timed test.
Needless to say I am so unappreciated. The person yo trust to leave your kids with while yo go out of state s who you're sick of???? FRUSTRATED. This is just a mere vent countless reasons as to why I feel unappreciated but ughh
that's what im saying his 3
that's what im saying his 3 kids came, he has a successful business ran from home which was more than enough when it was just me my BioD and him, now his kids have come and I have to work. I thought of it like that but then I felt selfish because he did take care of me and my daughter for 8 months, honestly I want to make my own money not be monitored on every cent and have a social life also I want him to see dealing with kids all day long by yourself is not easy I want him to realize he does need me and my role as a stay at home mom was very important to the function of our household
Wow, he has a successful
Wow, he has a successful business and took care of you for a whole 8 months! What the hell am I reading? :?
Please.
This man is garbage.
His kids are assholes - or at least one of them is - per your blog.
You're pregnant with his child... which was not a smart choice AT ALL.
And your daughter is witnessing all of this.
I won't tell you what to do, but I will say that you're not selfish... selfish women (or self-mindful/self-respecting women) DO NOT let men talk to or treat them like this. Why don't you think you deserve better than this horrible guy?
I know we are SO SHORT on
I know we are SO SHORT on cash lol. Ha Ill be stashing for my getaway fund, and i mean far far away LOL
Yea....get a job you pregnant
Yea....get a job you pregnant loafer with 1 child, of course you should get a job to support his mother, a sibling and HIS 3 children.....
You better start saving Marilyn, you need to escape NOW before it's too late....
I deff will be!
I deff will be!
You guys are totally right.
You guys are totally right. Its getting unbearable to fake the funk with him anymore. He's noticing my lack of care. I have two job interviews tomorrow wish me luck! This is step 1 in my safe escape. I will help with assigned bills. I believe me taking over some of the utilities is fair. I will lower my salary by at least 100.00 to him and save that plus try to save at least one whole check per month or half of one. I have a feeling he will try to appoint my whole salary to responsibilities but I wont stand for it he has a hefty savings and certificate of deposit. That will be my point....i bet the dancers at my old club are laughing their ass off. I stepped out on "love" and lost everything. I had a tricked out black and pink exterior and leather interior sports car with suicide doors sound system and all 2 bedroom apt. Just got my abdomen lipo done. I did wat i wanted to do when i wanted to and my daughter never wanted for anything...i was working on owning my own woman's boutique. ..now look at me. Life is crazy. I walk around with 0 dollars jn my pocket at times because unless i have a specific need for something im not given any cash....another job is long over due and i quit my last paralegal job per his request. I wont be the dumb bitch this time.
You guys are totally right.
You guys are totally right. Its getting unbearable to fake the funk with him anymore. He's noticing my lack of care. I have two job interviews tomorrow wish me luck! This is step 1 in my safe escape. I will help with assigned bills. I believe me taking over some of the utilities is fair. I will lower my salary by at least 100.00 to him and save that plus try to save at least one whole check per month or half of one. I have a feeling he will try to appoint my whole salary to responsibilities but I wont stand for it he has a hefty savings and certificate of deposit. That will be my point....i bet the dancers at my old club are laughing their ass off. I stepped out on "love" and lost everything. I had a tricked out black and pink exterior and leather interior sports car with suicide doors sound system and all 2 bedroom apt. Just got my abdomen lipo done. I did wat i wanted to do when i wanted to and my daughter never wanted for anything...i was working on owning my own woman's boutique. ..now look at me. Life is crazy. I walk around with 0 dollars jn my pocket at times because unless i have a specific need for something im not given any cash....another job is long over due and i quit my last paralegal job per his request. I wont be the dumb bitch this time.