SS19 went without AND BMs partner being aggressive to OH!! lol
So, I changed tack. As SS19 hadn't turned up by 6.30 last night, I didnt cook for him at all....we were all enjoying our lovely tea and he turned up half way through it...Im not a hotel or restaurant, so he went without! And I didnt and still dont bloody care!!
BUT, BUT BUT....Before ALL of that...OH went to collect SD7, but BM wouldnt answer her phone or texts, so OH just went straight to the house (he was collecting her a little earlier than usual so had called etc ahead to check it was ok)...anyway, BM wasnt there, but BMP (BM partner)...BMP answered the door then proceeded to have a go at OH....OH is an aggressive man, and Ive helped and encouraged him to deal with confrontation in a calm way....so OH walks away...BMP follows and PUSHES OH....this is not a good idea folks.....but OH stayed calm, and turned and asked "what the f*ck is your problem!?"....BP backed off slightly and had a go at OH cos he had halved his maintenance to BM....Oh replied "yes, cos I only have to pay for SD7. SS17 doesnt live here and he works"...BMP wasnt overly enthralled with this but shut up....then said that OH doesnt do enough with SD7 or have enough contact with SD7 :jawdrop:
OH said taht if BM answered her phone and texts (showed BMP the phone logs) then he woudlnt be saying that!.....so that shut him too....as well as various other pointless stupid crap......BMP finally backed down completely, and apologised and shook OHs hand.....
Apparently, BM had been mouthing off and slagging off OH to BMP.......truth? I knew this was coming....the green eyed monster....all of this is because she hasnt got the single hold of "stressedstep may be your missus...but im the mother of your kids!".....because we are having a child too...
Dont even start me on SS17......thats a WHOLE different blog! lol
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Worst part is, BMP actually
Worst part is, BMP actually DID bring up the subject of "food on the table"!! OH said it wasnt his problem, he pays for SD7 to be clothed and fed, what BMP and BM do is this business....then BMP said "well, ESS (OH had a stepson who he bought up from 3 month old although thy have nothing to do with each other now!) is stopping here now!"...to which OH said "not my problem either, her 22, tell him to get a job!"
I mean, why is the food for the adults gonna be a concern for us!!?? lol
Normally, that is exactly how
Normally, that is exactly how my OH would have reacted, and worse! But It puts his visits with SD7 at risk, cos BM will surely involve police etc etc and that will be that...and if that happened, well, Oh would totally loose the plot and wouldnt give a toss what consequences he would face, including prison...
Im proud he stayed chilled, although he been sooooo angry since....
He should have called the
He should have called the cops and filed a report against the guy.
OH has now said that every
OH has now said that every visit to BMs or BMs mothers, sisters etc...he is setting the record app on his phone each time......
This isnt the first time stuff like this has happened....BM has punched him on 3 occasions and BMs nieces (all around the age of 18 to 21) have attacked him twice, as well as her sister kicking and spitting at our car!
Like ive said before, proper scutter family, lower than a sewer rat.......not a family you want your kids involved with...poor MIL!!!!