Is anyone else here from New Hsmpshire, or familiar with family law here? My SO has been divorced for less than a year (maybe even less than six months; the divorce proceedings stretched out over a two year time period) and in NH the court likes for a) both parents to spend ample time with the child when possible and b) the parents to "co-parent". However, so far, BM has made this next to impossible. We have SO's son four nights per week as he resides with us "for school purposes". BM continuously rejects SO when he looks for her approval prior to enrolling the son in any extracurricular activities. And, when he throws caution to the wind and enrolls him anyway, he knows that she won't bring him to the activity and that he'll only be able to participate when he's in our custody. This past spring, SO enrolled him in t-ball and the boy was only able to attend half of his games due to this. The most recent problem is that she doesn't like their current schedule and won't accept a compromise offered by SO; instead of trying to reach an agreement, she has petitioned the court. Every time SO tries to talk to her about anything at all, she points fingers and is nasty instead of dealing with the issue at hand. The boy is having some coping issues which cause problems both in the home, and at school as he is not up to par with his peers emotionally speaking. SO tried to enroll him in therapy, after trying several times to talk to BM about it, and she is blocking him from receiving any assistance. My point is that it is clear that these two aren't able to "co-parent", even though that is what the court would like to see and is, in most cases, in the best interest of the child. In the state of New Hampshire, how can SO get out of this obligation? All BM does is deflect any thought, idea, or concern that SO has; right down telling their very confused son that he doesn't have to listen to me because I'm not his mother. *sigh* Any thoughts or ideas you could share would be greatly appreciated.