I know I've read a few stories on here of people winning custody of their steps. What is your story? Dh has an appt tomorrow with a lawyer and he's going to ask if it's even a possibility to get custody from Bm. There CO only establishes Child Support, that Bm and Dh have Joint legal Custody and that she's the Custodial parent. Other than that, nothing. They never did a parenting plan so there isn't anything in that aspect to ammend. Right now Bm is not working (receiving state assistance/bf supporting her), has been out of work since april-ish, she has on more than one occassion said she cannot handle Ss son financially and wants Dh to do more (right now he pays max support) she's also called Dh on numerous occassions stating all her medical issues and how she needs help. Dh has been keeping documentation but he doesn't have like "proof" so to speak-like he doesn't have videos/recordings or anything like that. He just has dates of calls/interactions. I'm just curious what happened in your situtations and what caused Bm to lose custody?