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B!t@h makes me crazy

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When I first met Inbred she seemed ok. Don't get me wrong, I knew I wasn't going to be friends with her but I figured it would be nice if every one could get along and be civil. For about minute I thought she felt the same way.
Then the ring slid onto my finger and her crazy came out.
First she was keeping his kids from him and telling him as long as you have that whore living with you you'll never see your kids so choose.
She didn't realize he had already filed on himself for CS and visitations.
Then came all the phone calls to his friends and family telling every one that I'm a homewrecking whore. I destroyed their happy family and crushed the hearts of her little children.
Then came the new bf and trying to make my DH jealous, when that didn't work either came the flirting and crying and guilt."The kids just don't understand why daddy doesn't come home any more"
"It's our first Christmas apart and the kids would really like it if you came by for a just a few hours before they go to sleep:
Etc, etc.
I didn't break up their relationship. Her screwing his friend while he was at work and him walking in on it broke up their happy home. And after I found out about the flirting I put my foot my down with DH. He needed to make decision. If he wanted to go back to her and try to make that family work then ok, I would not stand in the way of that. But if you're getting into bed with me every night and telling me you love me and making plans for a long future than the contact between the two of you has to stop now. No more texting back and forth unless it's about getting your kids fort he weekend. No more talking to her over the phone, and definately no more going over there to get or drop off the kids unless I'm there with you because how would it make you feel if Ex and I were acting like you and Inbred?
He saw myside, but that didn't stop her from trying her damndest to do more damage. In some ways she did a good job, and in others she's made herself look pathedic and crazy.
When will this all end? My Ex is remarried, I don't constantly call him or text him. I don't want him coming over for lunch or dinner. I don't call his new wife to start any drama between them. And I've never tried to keep my son away from his father.
I know it's better to be the bigger person but there's always a part of me that just wants to go all jersey shore on her every time I see her annoying face and hear hick voice for all the crap she's tried to start in my life. Will this ever end and every one can just live and let live?