D-Day....

Navigation

Sponsor Ads

A Note about PayPal

While PayPal is our payment processor, you do not need a PayPal account to donate. PayPal accepts payments from all Visa, MasterCard, Discover and American Express cards, as well as some other localized payment types.

Shop at Amazon.com? Start your shopping here by clicking the graphic above and Step Talk will collect a small proceed from your order. All without increasing your bill!

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 7:57am.

Today's D-Day. Divorce Day. The day his stuff is going to finally be removed from my house. The last day I see him.

GOOD.

The rage had subsided a bit, until this morning when I found his dating profile online again, cached by google and the date was a lot earlier than I expected. He had an online dating profile up when we went away for our "romantic" anniversary getaway.

Prick. Rage gauge back to 10.

I just saw his drive by with a truck.

Wish me luck - in that I don't kill him today.

dorothyparkerwannabe's blog
Login or register to post comments

Today's the day you get a

Submitted by StepAside on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:02am.

Today's the day you get a new start without all his problems/baggage/issues. How liberating that will be!

Today's the first day of the

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:06am.

Today's the first day of the rest of your life! Yippee!

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

Hang in there DPW. I'm

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:18am.

Hang in there DPW. I'm rooting for you.

Just be glad you found

Submitted by Sus on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:19am.

Just be glad you found out,It could be worse. If you didn't find out this could have continued for years. Glad you had great insight!!
Also since you don't know exactly what he has been doing all the times when he wasn't "home"
I would get every battery of tests available... ASAP.
Don't kill him, why ruin your life. You'll find a new love that will love you 100% and be honest with you.
To get his goat. I would tell him, you were gonna dump him anyway, that you've been watching his behavior for a very long time. And don't leave him out of your sight while he is there collecting.Some always take what isn't theirs.
My sisters friend, she met a guy online( aol), moved across country, etc & found out years later he had 9 yes NINE women all living in same state/city that moved there for him.( plus he was married) He Was engaged to ALL of them. They found out by accident, when ONE of the womem went to a private room online & ran into a couple other women,) apparently he shared the same link with almost all of them. They all got together a few times, talked etc, minus 2 and set up a date ( one did) with him & ALL showed up at the same time LOLOL they ALSO contacted his wife, Mother and entire family and Bossthey all watched him for months...And then some of them sued him,borroed monet etc, and won too.
..Watch for RED flags. if its doesn't seem or feel right , go with your huntches. !!
Good Luck in the New New ,may you find the love of your life.!!
Just be careful and Safe.

I asked him if I needed to

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:24am.

I asked him if I needed to get any tests and he said that he had not slept with anyone.

Still don't believe him. I'll be getting tested.

Now, time for Kahlua and coffee!!!!

Cheers! I'm having a Beer as

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:26am.

Cheers! I'm having a Beer as it's 16h25 and as hot as hell!!! I'm celebrating a skid free MONTH!

You could be celeBrating a skid free LIFE! Laughing out loud

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:30am.

I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well it's 9:30am here and well... who cares, Kahlua time!!!

No more skid!

How come you're skid free this month?

BM was talking about taking

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:34am.

BM was talking about taking her on holiday and driving down to Port Elizabeth which is about a 12 hour drive. Well her car is not in the greatest shape so I asked DH if we could pay for BM, her Son and SD to fly down, for safety.

I have to admit, I had an ulterior motive Evil I wanted to be skid free whilst I'm on leave and this was one sure way to make that happen. Anyway, everyone's happy, so that's good.

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

Freezing my buns off over

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:32am.

Freezing my buns off over here. I'm smoking in the house with the windows open and I don't CARE! Sticking out tongue

Oh by the way, I got a new

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:35am.

Oh by the way, I got a new electronic cig - it's GREAT!

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

What the HECK is an

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:41am.

What the HECK is an electronic cigarrette???

Ditto to question... puff

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:45am.

Ditto to question...

*puff*

It's the most amazing

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:49am.

It's the most amazing invention ever. You get different types, some that look like cigarettes and one's that look like a pen. I have two that look like a pen.

It has a battery and a thing called an atomizer and then a filter type thing called a cartige. The cartige contains nicotine and as you puff on it the atomizer causes a vapour which looks and feels just like smoke.

There is no tar, no bad chemicals etc that you get from a cigarette. There is no smell and no smoke, just vapour, so they are generally acceptable to "smoke" in places where normal smoking is banned. Not harmful to others as there is no secondary smoke.

When using an electronic cigarette you are not smoking you are vaping.

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

Are you still smoking

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:57am.

Are you still smoking regular ciggies?

Yes, I'm weaning myself off

Submitted by Katrinkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 9:03am.

Yes, I'm weaning myself off though. It does take time to get used to the e-cig. The first one I had looked exactly like a cig, but it didn't perform well for me, so I upgraded to the pen-shape which works much better. Each filter or cartrige they say should last for about a pack of cigs, but it really depends on how much one smokes and how one smokes.

I use the e-cig all the time if I go out as normal smoking is banned everywhere here. Whilst using the e-cig, I have no cravings whatsoever for a normal cig and if I've used the e-cig for most of the day, I find a normal cig disgusting afterwards.

The kick is slightly different, not as strong, but you do get used to it.

***Life can only be understood backwards, however it must be lived forwards***

OOOH. It never even

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:31am.

OOOH. It never even occurred to me that I could put Kahlua in my coffee! Actually, bad idea. I might like it a little bit too much. Especially when the skids come to visit. Or when I have to wake DD up in the morning for school. Shocked

It's been my weekend morning

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:32am.

It's been my weekend morning drink for the last bit. It's taking me everything not to do it during the week! LOL!

You have far more

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:34am.

You have far more self-control than I have. It's all I can do to responsibly use the benzos they keep tossing at me. Eye-wink

Don't tempt me - I might be

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:57am.

Don't tempt me - I might be driving over later to get some of your benzos!

I am a fan of Bailey's in my

Submitted by Nymh on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 5:14pm.

I am a fan of Bailey's in my coffee. Or just in a glass with ice. Or straight out of the bottle, as I am sometimes known to sip it...like I did the night before last...and think I will again now since I have brought it up...

*wanders off to find the remains of her bottle of Bailey's*

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Now I'm thinking about

Submitted by Selkie on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 5:18pm.

Now I'm thinking about Bailey's. Hmmmmmm. Maybe I'll hit the liquor store tomorrow. It IS Christmastime, after all! And tree decorating is coming up very soon! I may have to be drunk just to drum up the courage to face the crowds for Christmas shopping!

I just wanted to tell you

Submitted by Mustang1 on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:48am.

I just wanted to tell you that I've always thought you were an awesome lady. I've always enjoyed reading your posts and thought that you were always "right on" with your responses. You seem like you have your act together. You're going to pull through all of this and come out much better in the end.

Thank you SO much Mustang -

Submitted by dorothyparkerwannabe on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 8:58am.

Thank you SO much Mustang - you've got me all teary-eyed.

LOL!!! Well, at least it's

Submitted by Mustang1 on Sat, 12/19/2009 - 9:02am.

LOL!!! Well, at least it's for a GOOD reason that you're teary-eyed! A very good friend of mine who I met through steptalk and I email on a regular basis (she hasn't posted here in awhile) also mentioned that she thought you were a really cool/good poster on this forum and that she liked you.