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Well I Let Chef Know ERRRVERYTHING That OSS was up to on FB INCLUDING the BM's Shenanigans!!

thinkthrice's picture

I let Chef "have it" and showed him the FB printouts.

He looked STUNNED as though someone had hit him in the gut. EVERYTHING OSS thinks is EXACTLY OPPOSITE to the way Chef thinks. The meterosexuality, the cuddly, softie, weenie, scared of his own shadow, EMO overtones. The fact that OSS is becoming as big as the Goodyear Blimp. The fact that OSS has NO future plans whatsoever. Floating around smoking pot, playing vid games, gorging and doing nothing constructive all day or night.

The BM is TOTALLY ok with this. IN fact she (43 yrs old) and StepDaddy Big Bucks (52 yrs old) are going around with Zombie makeup on "just for fun." Snapping selfies of themselves in zombie get up and having the time of their lives. My only dissapointment when showing Chef this photo was him POINTING OUT HOW CROOKED STEPDADDY BIG BUCKS LOWER TEETH ARE!!

Seriously? I would be EMBARRASSED and ashamed if my ex-spouse was acting like a 12 year old on the internet. Especially since she potrays herself as MOTY. Oh there was some "reminiscing" when he saw his old "married friend" glom on the mutual admiration society train that is the BM's clan.

I've scheduled an attorney consultation for this Wednesday and have written up the "brief" as it were. I'm going for NO CS as suggested by forum friends here and surprisingly reiterated by an attorney at work. Frankly it's a long shot since the BM loves EVERY.LAST.DROP of that CS for vacay money. Since there is NO relationship. Only hope it doesn't backfire and suddenly the visitations/guilt parenting starts cranking up again. Those children are beyond help IMHO. They've NEVER been disciplined, instructed or have had boundaries since the day they popped out of the giant BM's hoo hoo.

The most likely scenario is that upon learning there has been an emancipation event and, most importantly that CHEF knows about it, it will force the BM and estranged Uncle's hand to put OSS into community college. Thus hastening the process as I'm sure the BM would have dragged out putting him in college until he was about to turn 20 to get extra years of CS beyond 21.

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BarkAtTheMoon's picture

This is good news and my fingers are crossed for you. Keep us posted! No more vacay money!!!! LOL

~ Moon