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Anyone's BM a SP?

zerostepdrama's picture

BM isn't a SM.

But the man she is dating has at least 1 kid (that I know of).

I dont know much about BM's BF (as I dont even know much about BM)

I did do some FB snooping one time and the daughter seemed somewhat normal. I was really surprised she was the offspring of someone who would date BM.

She is probably closer to my age, maybe 4 years yonger, so I am assuming BM's BF is older then she is. I am 9 years younger then BM.

I really did stop and think though... what does this woman who seems normal and has a job and a house and a car, what does she think of BM who is such a loser?

BM's old BF (The one who lived in the basement and preferred sleeping down there with the dogs as opposed to sleeping in bed with BM and who was also a pill addict) had a kid the same age as the skids. A teenage boy.

But I could never figure out if she was nice to him, etc. Or if he was nice to her.

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Ljcapp1's picture

I prayed and prayed that Sasquatch would marry bikini boy. He moved in with his 2 girls and was propmtly kicked out two months later. SD17 and her BF are shacked up in the basement and Bikini Boy apparently didn't take kindly to them not working and him having to help support them. SD17 CANNOT be told what to do, Sasquatch will not have it from me or anyone including the dude she just kicked out.
I was so bummed I mean really bummed. When I REALLY hate someone I wish them into a step family. I really wanted her to see how awful raising other people's children is, especially awful children like hers. Maybe someday I'll get my wish.

Just J's picture

Nah, probably wouldn't make a difference. DH's ex is a SM and the BM in her situation was a selfish bitch who just wanted money and then moved her daughter out of state, and none of that made our BM any more understanding or any less bitchy to us. Funny, her DH's CS for his daughter (half of what my DH paid for 2 kids) was too much, she bitched all the time, but what my DH paid her was not enough. You would think she might have had a little bit of empathy, being in the step situation herself, but she didn't, not one ounce.

hereiam's picture

I don't know if BM's current husband has kids but the one before had 3 grown daughters. They ended up despising her in a very short amount of time.

Had they been grown men, they might have enjoyed her services, which she would have surely offered.

misSTEP's picture

Yes, my BM is also a SM. Unfortunately, the Karma train didn't take that opportunity to show her what it is like on the "other side." Her victim's XW is NORMAL. They got a divorce and she hasn't taken him back to court since. He gets to see his kids MORE than his visitation schedule.

Makes me wonder what the hell I did that was so awful I had to deal with this psycho for so many years (besides falling in love with a guy who had kids).

Mercury's picture

No and it doesn't look like it will ever happen or at least not until the kids are grown.

She did write DH and I an email earlier this year telling us she had moved on too: "I am seeing someone and it is very serious. We only get to see each other every other Saturday night because we are both very involved with our children's lives. We have been dating for 2 months." OK. Do the math guys. That sure sounds serious to me, lol. The rest of the email was her basically bragging about the way she kissed this guy's ex's ass. As unbelievable as it sounded DH thought it was probably true. She really thinks the new woman needs to do the things she claimed she did to appease this woman.

The funniest part? We never heard about this guy after that email and since she is the queen of tmi, we would hear all about it if he still existed. Serious indeed.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Yep, SheBeast has a 12 year old SD. She hates her, accuse her of shit like stealing from her and messing up her things. Who the hell knows if any of that's true. Fortunately for the kid, she lives across the country and only sees SheBeast twice a year. UNfortunately, that means she also only sees her father once a year. I feel so sorry for this kid with the bio dad and SM she's stuck with. Not sure what her relationship with the BM is like, but it can't be good. None of her relationships are good.

Somuchdrama's picture

Skids BM wants to be a Step-Mom. But I doubt her BF will ever commit to her because one of his adult daughters absolutely HATES BM. They broke up because of her last year apparently the BM of the daughters tells them all about how she (our BM) broke up their marriage. I hope she keeps up with the good work because I would hate to see BM get anything she wants!

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Yup, BM in our case got paid back in droves for her dumping the kids on me all the time while she found a new husband.

The guy she married a few years ago has a teenaged daughter and a teenaged son. I guess the daughter is decent enough, but the boy is special needs and will never leave home. He also does all kinds of very inappropriate things (my skids would tell us stories).

BM was gold digging when she married this guy, but then he lost his job a year ago and can't find a new one because is in his late 50's. He was mid-management and companies are getting rid of them nowdays because they cost too much.

BM's step kids started living with them full time a short while after they got married. LOL. She spent 9 years shoving her kids off on us 90% of the time because she didn't want them around and then she gets stuck with full time skids. Baa haaa!

She was also forced to work after her DH lost his job! LOL! She did everything in her power not to work for 12 years after she divorced my DH. She tries to guilt my DH into giving her more money, but he always tells her no. She always has a sob story about how her DH lost his job and how haaaaard it is for her. The last time she asked for several hundred dollars my DH told her it wasn't his job to support her new family.

Boo hoo! Too bad, so sad.

LMAO and FUCK YOU BM. You deserve all of it!