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What is the most hurtful/mean/sad thing SD/SS/BM/in-law has ever said to you?

1toomany's picture

My SD19 once said to me "I am going to take my life just to make you suffer for the rest of your life bitch, you will be blamed."

just.his.wife's picture

My reply would have been "Don't threaten me with a good time kid. You want white or yellow flowers at your viewing?"

zerostepdrama's picture

Ha Ha Ha

Needalifeboat's picture

LOL!

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Should have told her to slice her wrists up and down and not sideways. That way she will be sure to bleed out. }:)

God, how I hate dramatic teens.

Tcandme's picture

At 16 SD told me if I didn't like her messy ways I should just move out! Yeah right piglet! I agree withjusthiswife with the response! Lol

Tcandme's picture

At 16 SD told me if I didn't like her messy ways I should just move out! Yeah right piglet! I agree withjusthiswife with the response! Lol

zerostepdrama's picture

BM called my BS a bastard. Hmmm now she has a grankid that is a "bastard". It kind of hurt because she was talking about my son who is innocent. Not that she called him a bastard, I know better then to feed into that.

BM also told DH to "put his bitch on a leash". Really any "insults" coming from her dont mean much, I just consider the source. I am just doing life better then her. Enough said.

Skids have said some things, but its more their actions that hurt me. But that was in the past. Now I dont really give a fuck.

1toomany's picture

Omg same thing here!!! Our son is also a bastard!! That's why sd19 now is hurrying to get registered married before her spawn comes in 3 week.... GL to them! She broke up with her hubs dad a few months back but just HAS to do "better" than me.

zerostepdrama's picture

Yeah BS is from my Ex. I chose not to marry him, not like its only of her business.

BM on the other hand had to get (fake) pregnant for DH to marry her. DH married me because he loves me.

positivelyfourthstreet's picture

Me too. Technically he is. I was not married when my son was born. It didn't hurt me so much but my little boy heard it. He was five years old(he'll be 18 in 2 weeks).

Imagine her surprise when DH told her to shut her mouth because people could say that about her too since he didn't marry BM until AFTER SD was born.

Never heard that word come out of her mouth again! LOL!

He will vehemently stand up for all of the kids when necessary. Me not so much but on the very rare times he has stood up for me he's gone both barrels.

Also implications that my boy and I would not be missed if we bought it.

Very under the radar of course.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

I wouldn't say hurtful or mean, it just pissed me off. Cuntastic has taught ssstb 10 how to stalk me on FB. Guess the apple don't fall from the tree.
Back Story
BM sent SO a few text messages one day and and he didn't respond right away, we were busy doing us. When we picked up the texts messages the last one said " are you getting my text" this annoyed me, yea bitch he's getting them, he's busy!!! He doesn't answer to you or is at your beck and call. Well I decided to vent my annoyance on FB in a very general statement, something along the lines of I'm not 16 and keep my phone glued to my hand I hate when people text did you get my text, yea I got it I'm busy, working, gym, eating a meal with my man, GASP even taking a trip to funky town. Well that following weekend SSstb10 asked Daddy why does justanothergurl have to be an asshole and write things on FB and WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER MOMMY!! Well SO told Prince William that one his mother shouldn't involve him and that's when he said he seen it himself, so SO pretty much told him to stay off my FB and that he doesn't answer to him or his mother and will get back to her in his time. Talk about parenting, who teaches 10 year old to stalk someone on FB!!

Anyway you little shit good thing I didn't hear you I would have NOT been as polite as you dad.

Dizzy's picture

My ex sent me a string of 10 crazy emails after I vaguebooked about a conversation that he and I had. I posted to public, he had copied and pasted the post into one of the emails...the post was copied a whole 4 min after I posted. Was he sitting there refreshing my page? After that, I got real obnoxious and posted a bunch of stalking memes on my page. Lmao

I never acknowledged or responded to his crazy emails. Fuck him.

Ughugh's picture

I used to hear endless "My Momma does this better (or another thing better)"...and it was all lies, just to try to get at me, since her Momma sits in bed drunk/high all day and night and they have to care for themselves since birth. Since I emotionally and physically disengaged, they get to say hurtful things to DH, to the point where he can't wait until they are gone again. Meh.

Anon2009's picture

Bm gloated about a miscarriage I had all over Facebook. I didn't read about this. Dh

lash's picture

My SD16 has said(a few years back) to me why I don't just move out because she wants her mom and dad together again, and when I was pregnant before she has told me that those babies will die SD states BM has said this also.

Ughugh's picture

I am so sorry. These people are gross creatures. Until I 100% disengaged, I used to hear things that her "Momma" said. Nowadays, I don't give a flying fart, I do anything and everything I want and if DH wants to divorce, I'll have an even better time Smile I am so past dealing with any crap in my life at this age.

1toomany's picture

Just remembering as I read your experience that SD and BM used to pressure me about an abortion when I was pregnant with DH first time. They used to say that is the only reason DH stayed with me - I convinced him to stay by "getting pregnant ". They didn't drop that shit until we had our daughter 7 months ago.

1toomany's picture

I agree and I did take it very seriously. In fact went to social services who ended up more or less forcing her to see a psychologist. It falls under the "sad" category. It is still very sick to take something so , like you say, deranged, about yourself and put it on someone else's shoulders! In my book that is about as low as you can get.

Ughugh's picture

Tis also ha
Pened to me. That is when I disengaged. Go F yourself... I stopped doing anything or buying anything.

One Step Back's picture

I've had everything from you're fat, yellow teeth (I have good white teeth!), Your room stinks (I'd just changed DD's dirty nappy in my room that he walked into uninvited). He told me DD looked dead when she was sleeping.

BM has called me a geriatric and told SO he should not have had DD as it's not conducive to his relationship with SS8.

However, BM and her mother (both drunk during the day) told SO in front of SS that he wasn't wanted and to fucking take him and not bring him back. It's no wonder the child can be nasty. He didn't even get upset by that as it is normal behaviour for them...

niknakpaddywak2's picture

The 6 hours before I went into labor with DS SD looked at me and said "you look ugly" this is coming from a 5 year old.

Ughugh's picture

Since day One, both skids have said each and every hurtful thing you can imagine. Every time they opened their mouths, hurtful crap came out. I patiently coached them to be nice, bla bla, it got worse. So now I float by them. I do nothing with or for them. Like now, I just sit and rest and chat with you guys, then later I go to the gym with my bios, then DH and I are going to a biker party. Yo see, nothing in my schedule includes skids anymore. I used to treat them better than my bios, until I realized they will always hate and resent me, and I ran out of cheeks to turn.

Same with MIL. I never go visit her anymore. She will always hate and resent me too, no matter how uh I tried to be nice, even saved her life by calling 911 once...no credit, no thank you, keeps trying to screw DH out of money and me by gossip every chance she gets.

toywas's picture

One adult SD told DH that he should divorce me because I was high maintenance because I wouldn’t go swimming or go horseback riding (I was on my period and I had a severe bladder infection). I ended up getting a total hysterectomy 2 months later!

Another adult SD gave DH some Christmas cookies made by the wonderful ex (she said it was his favorite)! DH threw them out – he hated those cookies!

Another adult SD tried to set DH up on a blind date while we were engaged!

And this is why we eloped! And this is why I make sure there’s alcohol in the house when they come over to visit!

jojo68's picture

Just last night SD14 was in our utility room running the vacuum and her father asked her what the hell she was doing. First she said she was vacuuming gnats(yes you read that right)that were in there and then I guess DH didn't think her heard her right and he asked again and she then replied "I'm cleaning in here because ya'll (me and DH)are really dirty people" Reality was is she vacuumed up a few pieces of dog food that had spilled in the floor.
Not only does she make unwarranted remarks about our home she won't eat anything I cook. If DH grills she will eat but not if if I make it. I am disengaged from this hateful kid but nonetheless, that is a pretty crappy thing to say or do to either one of us.