Do I keep quiet or blow OH's world apart with possible revelation on SS17
Okay, SS17 (as previous blogs) has been at it as per usual. I think I mentioned previously that we had been told SS17 was taking cocaine, and OH was devastated and angry. Anyway, OH assumed that because SS17 owed money to the dealer (the dealer being his BM's brother) that SS17 couldnt get anymore.....
Now, I live in a small, close knit area, and know a few sorts myself, and a little info is slowly filtering through regarding SS17....during SS17 and OH row on Tuesday, SS17 was sporting some nice new clothes and nike air max trainers...in the UK, the trainers cost £100 ish.....he told OH during the arguement to look at how "dank" (which means good) he looks with his new gear that HE BOUGHT HIMSELF WITH HIS OWN MONEY.....he is 17, cant claim benefits, doesnt have a job and didnt get it from BM as she cant even afford it and even if she could, she would not hand it over to SS17 or any of her kids.....so how did SS17 do it?
Apparently, a whisperer said that he is dealing......drugs........not confirmed I must highlight that...but the person who told me is my best mate, my BD6's Godmother......
So, what do I do if its confirmed that its true? Do I tel OH or do I leave it? :?
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My husband's brother died
My husband's brother died from a drug overdose.He was a drug dealer over the years too,but not at the time of his death.His parents liked to avoid talking about things to keep from rocking the boat.They never got in his face about anything and just let him drift...using limp wristed "let's get you some help" techniques that FAILED.
EVERYONE needs to know about this. Death happens when secrets are kept and no intervention is made. Avoidance is not the answer.This kid needs help,big time otherwise you might be attending his funeral in the near future.
Thankyou Both. She_Sparkles,
Thankyou Both.
She_Sparkles, I too know the pain. My cousin was an addict from the age of 13 years....went through stealing, prostitution, everything. At the age of 22, She was murdered. Then her body was set alight. Of course we all tried to "help", but it wasnt enough for her, she just couldnt do it. She was clean for a year, but went back on it. Ill always remember her saying "this is nobodys fault...I chose to do this, I could have said no"...thats always stuck with me.
Which leads me to beaccounatble.....I agree, I dont want to say anything until I know for a fact that this is actually happening. I actually think that OH suspects if Im honest. The people SS17 hangs around with are known to others and are known to partake in the taking, but this is the first Ive heard of the dealing.
I may wait, see what I find out. I dont want to cause problems which in SS17 circles and dealers, is what happens so easily!
I think you have to tell as
I think you have to tell as well. But just be prepared that your DH will probably get mad at YOU.