how to deal with a grown up skid!
Ok here is my situation I have being married for almost 7 years, i had 2 kids from my first marriage and he as well both of us a boy and a girl, they get a long pretty good, they respect me for the most part, but his son who is 20 now have already being arrested when he was 17 and get in trouble a lot got a tattoo without permition but now ok he 20 and his dad decides to bring him to the house permanetly "for his own good" because he found a "job" at a car wash so he works only sometimes and when he doesnt work he stays the whole day in the cauch watching tv, and i am not working at this time so is frustrating and my husba d is like nothing is his son and he have to help him. But is this any help to him? Now i have to get more food, clean more my 2year old dont have her bedroom anymore. And if i try to talk to my husband he gets mad, so my ss is bad influence to my 18 year old son because he is saying why we have atime to go to sleep etc.no they are under our roof they are our resposabilty. I want him to go back with his mother but dont know how to.
Until your DH figures out
Until your DH figures out that he is doing his idiot spawn no favors there is little you can do about it. Unless you are willing to draw a line in the sand to inform your DH that either he gets his deadbeat spawn out of your marrital home or they are both gone.
Good luck.
He kicked your 2 year old out
He kicked your 2 year old out of her room?
Your husband is not helping his son, just enabling him. Letting him sit around watching TV is not teaching him anything.
Time for a heart to heart with your DH. Stand firm. You cannot sacrifice your other kids for this loser, who is not even trying.
If you try to get him put his
If you try to get him put his adult son out, he may say your adult son has to leave also. Especially sincr he's the only one working. There's no way I would kick my bio kid out, but continue to provide for my SKs.