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Cat8474's picture

I have vented more then a few times on this site and feel the need to do so again.

I posted on here recently that my SD's Bio Mom has been bad mouthing my husband behind his back yet again, and it all has to do with child support which he has always paid so she has nothing to complain about. I just can't stand the woman, she has bad mouthed everyone in our family. She is the most ungrateful, jealous, woman I have ever been around. The most two faced too, acts like she's our best friend when she wants something, mostly money, but if she doesn't get her way throws a huge fit like a 2 year old! I mean its like this women is still in high school herself, she hangs out with my SD15's friends like she's one of them. I myself never acted like that even when I was in high school. I have morals and treating people like shit that are trying to help me is just not my thing! lol!

What is making me so angry now that she of course had the nerve to spread rumors about us again and then she shows up at my husband's place of business. Him and his family run the local drive-in here in our town. So I was there on a Friday night going to see a movie like I do and usually have a great time hanging out, but of course the evil witch has to show up like nothing is wrong. :sick: But my SD is with her and SD's boyfriend, so I restrain myself because I don't want to cause a scene in front of them and at my husband's workplace! Because she can't stand it when someone calls her on her shit. She is such a coward and doesn't have the nerve to say something to my husband when there is a problem. Her whole goal in life is to try to make my husband look like a deadbeat dad, which of course he isn't! I just have to remember that she is a bitter, evil person that loves to cause drama for people she doesn't like. I am so proud of myself that I acted so mature and keep my mouth shut! It was so hard!

But the one good thing to come out of this situation is that now we know that people can see through her and her bullshit. She has burned many bridges for herself! We heard from my SD's boyfriend's dad that she badmouthed my husband in front of his daughter too. But he also thinks that is wrong and thinks more like we do. So we do have witnesses to her BS if we ever have to go to mediation or court again. My SD has been kept away from him when Mommie Dearest is throwing one of her famous fits. And she doesn't like our mediator because she too sees through her drama. Oh well. My husband has talked to his daughter and tells her the truth, that he does pay child support every month like clockwork, so I hope she won't fall victim to her mother's lies. We just have to keep loving her and be the good examples that we are. We are both successful people that have good reputations and good relationships with our friends and family. One idiot is not going to ruin that! Blum 3

missann88's picture

My fiances ex puts him on blast all the time and tells everyone I'm too young and naive to see the real him. All that says to me is our ex wives are extremely jealous. They don't like seeing our men happy and seeing how much better they are to us than they were before. Let her be bitter and jealous. Cling tight to your man, the more shit my fiances ex talks, the stronger him and I become.

kathc's picture

Pull put the paperwork...canceled checks or whatever and let sd see it,