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Submitted by lost.step.mommy on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 5:47pm

Ok first off i have been with my husband for 5 years. We have 2 children and he has daughter from a previos marriage. Now she loved me when she was little but now that shes 13 its a whole other ball game. I am the kind of person that holds stuff in well my husband noticed something was wrong with me and i finnslly exploded! Well come to find out he is gonna support his daughter no matter what! Snd btw she doesnt come over anymore cause we have rules where as her mama doesnt. And when she gets into trouble who do you thinks bailing her out? No matter what

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Submitted by supermom5 on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 9:25pm

I have been with my husband for 6 yrs now. We have one together, he has two from his previous relationship and I have two from my last marriage...we are actually probably on the brink of divorce because of BM and Sks. I hate it very much so, there are always problems (I AM ALWAYS THE PROBLEM APPARENTLY) and I would like to tell you it will get better but for me, my situation...over time it has gotten worse. Kids will play the parents and the only ones who sees that are the step parents, some ppl just can't handle the truth about their kids!

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Submitted by coping on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 10:38pm

Totally gotcha. SD 14 has rules her, but her mommy promises no rules at her house. (SD lives with us full time b/c BM is an asshole). It gets so old, trust me. Kids, especially girls, change a lot when they hit 12-13. It is just plain awful. Let dead dad work it out. Tell him you are out of the equation and let him do the stressing and enforcing.