Yesterday for the first time in probably 5 years I felt genuinely happy. I felt a great sense of peace and release. Thanks to this site and those who have given such great advice and encouragement. I had the best conversation with my husband. I told him all of my feelings and guess what.... HE LISTENED. He agreed, understood my points and I can actually tell a difference. We've been married for 5 years and I wish we'd had this conversation years ago. He realizes that Im not his child, his children arent mine, and that if he doesnt love me and treat me right that Im gone. I've stayed with him by choice and if he cant show me the same love and respect I've attempted to show him, then that choice will be no more. I decided to take control of my own happiness and relieve myself of so many unrealistic demands. I'd like to say thanks again to everyone on this site for sharing your stories and always giving awesome advice. I thought my marriage was over and there was nothing I could do about it. I was wrong, but if it wasnt for this site and those sharing their stories of failures and successes and helping me to realize I wasnt alone none of this would have been possible. Love you guys!!! Keep sharing!!!