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I really don't like SD11. There. Said it.

NoNameThx's picture

Okay I have to be honest. I'm really tired of pretending. I DON'T LIKE MY SD11. I don't. I have tried. I PROMISE I have.

BUt I just really don't like her. She's a spoiled brat. She talks to me as if I'm trash and her family enables it by saying I "deserve it". Her jealousy issues have led to my DH saying we will not have kids of our own because "Sd11 couldn't handle the competition", so I won't have any kids of my own.

SD11 is a slob. At Easter dinner today she literally GRABBED the ham steak, balled it up in her hand, and SHOVED IT IN HER DAMN MOUTH like a freaking caveman. This was at my grandma's house. My grandma finally had had enough and said "sweetie, we don't eat like that at our house. Please use a fork and knife." Well SD11 got pissed off and whined to me that my grandma hurt her feelings.

I don't really give a crap that she hurt her feelings, she was right. It was disgusting!!

I just am sick of her. I don't freaking like her. I've tried, but she makes herself unlikeable. I can't wait til she grows up and moves the hell out of our house.

krismk16's picture

The thing that jumped out to me was the fact that your husband doesnt want more kids because of jealousy and compitation! First off thats odd.Second, if you want children of your own, that is so unfair of him and you need to be true to yourself!! Good luck!

Disneyfan's picture

What a wimp. The man doesn't have the balls to just come out and say he doesn't want to have kids with you. Instead he blames his refusal on an 11 year old kid who he had a hand in raising. :?

Your SD acts like a brat and disrespects you because her father allows her to do so. Yet dad isn't on your hate list. That doesn't make any sense.

memyselfandi's picture

I'm glad I'm not alone as I really don't like my SD15 either.

I hate saying that as I love both of my step kids dearly..I just don't always like them..SD especially.

He's arrogant and mouthy. Thinks he owns the place. Wants everything done yesterday. Every time we go somewhere he's nagging about being there. He's become passive aggressive and expects me to wait on him hand and foot.

The bottom line is..he's this way because Disney Daddy doesn't discipline and I really think he's acting out to get a rise out of me.

I guess what I SHOULD say is, "I really don't like Disney Daddy's way of raising his children" as it's HIS fault they're not better behaved.

He's told me that I discipline wrong and my job is not to be their mother, (as they already have one) and to be their friend.

Again..I guess it's Disney Daddy's way of raising his kids that I don't like very much..

Apples don't fall far from the trees...do they??