Stepson said that his mom took him shopping to by herself a new outfit and coat for her date with the guy she met on the internet. He said that she told her live-in ex-boyfriend that she was going out with a "friend". Can he be that stupid? So he sat there and babysat stepson and their two year old girl while she went out on a date. The sad part is that the ex-boyfriend wants to get back with her and is going to be really mad when/if he finds out what she is doing behind his back.
So, things could go one of two ways. This new internet guy could turn out to be great and she gets married and everything is wonderful. Even if that does happen, it is going to get ugly with the ex-boyfriend I'm sure.
Now, if the new internet guy turns out to be not so great but biomom moves him in and ex-boyfriend out(that's what she does. She can't be alone), things will go downhill for stepson. Biomom's ex-boyfriend is the responsible one at their house. He is the one that keeps tracks of dates, pick-ups, and drop-offs. If he leaves I'm afraid that it will be bad. That would mean that biomom would have to keep track of schedules for both stepson and the little girl.
Biomom obviously isn't going to get back with live-in ex-boyfriend so the writing is on the wall for him. I almost feel sorry for the guy. I wish I could call him up and tell him to wake up but it's none of my business so all I can do is watch and see how it plays out.
Unfortunately, biomom involves stepson by forcing him to keep the fact that she is going out on dates with internet men, from her ex-boyfriend.
Dawn







jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzz!!!
Holy crap, what a tangled web *she* weave, huh??
Well, sheesh, let's hope for the best, I suppose, I was going to say I'd like to be a fly on THAT wall when it all blows up in her face, but I don't want your stepson to bear the fallout of that...
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, however, on all counts!!
Hugs,
Fearless
With all the other stuff she
With all the other stuff she does......fipping through guys on the internet is a sure fire way for him to loose respect for her....kids can recognize bad choices...at least in hindsight.
Been down that road with SD's mother....
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