Okay, now I'm really really bummed... but I tell you I just try to keep my head up high, humming those songs, and just focusing on family.
So, here's an update on the whole SD situation. Yesterday, we get a lovely Christmas present from the courts in the mail. Guess what day the hearing has been scheduled for... Feb. 14th. thaaaannnnnnnks. I'm going to have a LOVELY time on Valentine's Day. It's going to be sooo much fun. AAAAAGHH!!!! Granted that it's just a Wednesday and a normal day at that, but geesh, that is one of my DH's regular day's off and I was sooo hoping to spend alittle couple's time, ya know. So naturally, that too has been ruined this year. Can I just have ONE freaking holiday that HASN'T been ruined by some BM PLEASE!
So, I guess that means if the outcome of the hearing is good... we'll go to dinner. If the outcome of the hearing is bad, I might as well just heat up a TV dinner...
Have the hearing pushed back
Have the hearing pushed back and enjoy the day together...let her be miserable on Valentines Day, you snuggle up with your hunny!
Make a GREAT Day!
I agree with Nise! That
I agree with Nise! That might be a good idea
Unfortunately...
that won't happen inless we don't get the mediation part scheduled and done in time. We are trying to shoot two birds with one stone. Since the state is pushing for the child support, we are pushing for custody. We haven't gotten when that will be yet, so if that date doesn't come before the hearing, than I'm sure it will get pushed back until we do. My DH doesn't always see it the same way that I do. He really just wants to get this done and over with- which I don't blame him for.
I did comment that you know what day that is, right? And he grumbled it's just another day for the courts. They schedule when they schedule. I left it alone since it's really a sore subject for him anyway. Sucks though. He doesn't see Valentine's Day the same as I do, and it has been quite a let down the last few years anyway. This year, since it fell on his day off, I was hoping for alittle bit more. Oh well.
Make up your own holdiay:)
Dr. Phil made a really good point one day that bride's focus so much on their wedding day, and put no planning on the marriage.
What I took from that is to make my life with my marriage to my dh and make everyday of my life with him the bests days of my life. Everyday of my life with my dh is Christmas to me.
So with that said...may your own Valentines day any day of the year. You don't need anyone telling you that you can't have a good, unspoiled Valentine's day.
Bests,
Candice
I wasn't one of those brides...
believe me! lol My mother was incharge of our wedding... that is another story though! I was just glad to be there saying our vows!
We do, for the most part have good and bad days, but the point being was that it fell on my DH's regular day off, and we could have ultimately made some plans for the day... but that's not going to happen this year.
every day of my life is ruined by bm and dh i am never right
my ss is 14 they(bm/dh) let him make his own dissisions and he can't even remember his homework HA HA so sudegently our lives are a mess my dh and i fight like crazy for the last year.I raised this child from age four and went back ro work 7 months ago
as for the holidays we always are on hold until this child decides when we pick him up. well i decided next year his father can sit and wait I will go to my family at the time we were invited to go(by the way we have to go to dh family first and make it to my family right before dinner
Post new comment