Chel,

BM USED to be nice to me.. I think that is before she realized that I was not running off.. She tried to get me to think of him as a dirt bag, etc. What I saw underneath the surface is someone that made an aggregious mistake and paid dearly for it. There were a lot of factors going on in their relationship that lead to his straying.. Not to be solely blamed on him. I have had my problems w/DH, when we were dating, but not since, as he knows what my stance is on cheating and inappropriate relationships.

I know it burns her @ss that we are happy.. she tries very hard to disrupt our lives, ruin our family vacations (since she only knows when we are going away if we take the skids) and holidays (showed up 2 hrs late on Easter to pick up skids, and didnt tell dh, so he left the festivities early to meet her)

The fact that she posted this blog on OUR anniversary speaks volumes to me... That was our 2nd anniversary.. A week before our 1st anniversary she assaulted me.