Step Talk

yesterday I cleaned the house all by myself, of course.

H came and told me he had to go somewhere- that it was a secret, and I'd find out tomorrow.
He went out, came back, and I sat in the sun for a few minutes while H vaccuumed(the only thing he did)

He and SD came out, he opened his trunk, and I could hear him showing her gifts for her mom. I heard her say that her mom won't like the bag.....

So later on, SD came up to me and told me what H bought me(I didn't appreciate that she told me)- she told me that he bought me the same perfume that I had before- the one SD used all of, and left me with none.....And she showed me that he bought her the same one.
I know that H only bought it for her because he was buying it for me, and didn't want her to take mine..I understand that she would definitely have taken mine if she didn't have her own. But she also told me that he got me a "Nautica bag"

Well, this morning, he came in while I was in bed, gave me the perfume and the bag, and some white flowers. When I went downstairs I saw my flowers, plus another bunch of the same white flowers in another vase.

SO basically, H bought me and his ex the same flowers- and he bought me and SD the same perfume.

And I looked at the bag he gave me and saw that it was a free gift with purchase of Nautica's "My Voyage" perfume. SO basically, H bought her a perfume and gave me the gift bag because she wouldn't want it.

I don't oppose to him giving the kids money to go buy their mom a mother's day present.....It just bothers me that he picks it out, doesn't even take them with him, and then every single thing he got me, he got her or SD the same..

I wish that he would get me something that he didn't get for anyone else.

I do think that he got me a very nice present/the perfume and flowers.

But I will not be able to use that bag.

I am just going to put it away in the closet, and not say anything to him.