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Whose responsiblity is it really?

zenjetset's picture

FDH is in the beginning stages of filing for modification of CS and parenting time. The atty has been waiting for the financial documentation to back-up what he (I) stated in the financial affidivt.

Today is my day off, but I got up at 7:30am and started scanning and emailing the documents to the atty. I've spent 4 hours on this today so far and I just called FDH to ask him to please find 3 items when he got home today. His reply...

i need help or i am going to freak out on my stepson

sunflower2583's picture

Let me tell you a little about my self I am 27years old I have been married for one year and we been together for four years I have a stepdaughter that’s 18 year old and a step son that 20years old I get along with my stepdaughter but my step son is horrible it has started about a year into dating my husband I just look at him and get annoyed he’s lied so much he’s stole from us he a very dirty person his room you cant even walk in it because its so dirty he just tells you want you want to here he’s lost all his job he can even hold a job down he doesn’t do anything we ask he wakes us up

Do you want to cry about it?

livizzle's picture

Less than a week ago BM told DH in not uncertain terms that I was not allowed to be around skids alone because I "talked about her". Skids are out for T'giving break and decided last night that they didn't want to be with their step dad's mom all day. BM calls DH last night around 7p and tells him that the skids want to stay the night, which means that they'll be here ALL DAY with me. Was I ever consulted about it? No. Did I have things to do today? Yes. Is that out the window now? Yes. OK, well, I'll get over that. It's the almost constant whining that's beginning to get on my nerves.

and the biological mother shows up...

NI's picture

wow, i cant even begin to explain how this happened. my 14 year old got sick and we took her to the hospital, guess who was working there??? yes! her biological mother. we were with the 10 year old also, she is her bio mother also. omg! this cant be happening. she hasnt seen or talked to them since, i dont even remember. and know shes like, oh these are my daughters! arent they beautiful! and talking and rubing them like if she actually had a relashionship with them. the 14 year old was like, i dont care about her, i dont even need to talk to her, so and so.

Thank you for being here

Nobratsallowed's picture

A low bow...I'm extremely and wonderfully surprised to see that there is a place we horrid stepmothers can actually show our feelings without being considered Evil Aliens Who Eat Children. I'm a new stepmother (I'm also a BM who successfully raised three children to adulthood - at least that's what the three insist). I'm so glad this site exists.

Help please........I don't know what to do anymore!

Texas_mom75657's picture

Hello Everyone! I am new to this whole site and I really have to say I am glad there is a place like this. It will be refreshing to get feedback from other people that are step parents, can relate or just have an opinion. I am about to loose my mind so I don't know what else to do.

Okay so here goes....my husband had 3 children and was awarded custody of all of them when they were very young...because there mom stayed in jail and on drugs. 2 boys 7 and 8(who are mine as far as I am concerned) and a daughter 16 who is nothing but pure evil.

Are you living in BMs house?

leogirl819's picture

Just a question:

Is anybody living in the same house BM and DH shared before you were in the picture? How do you feel about it? I have been living in the same house DH shared with BM for over 5 yrs now~I have made it my own~changed EVERYTHING! He was living in it alone for 4 yrs before I moved in...but sometimes it makes me sick to think she walked the same floors... :sick:

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