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So I decided that for the New Year, I would take a new approach and start fresh with BM...this lasted all of two weeks. Here is why.
So, me and my husband talked things out last night. He tried to reassure me that I had nothing to fear but I just can't make him understand things. He is not the one with so many accusations made about him. my ss grandmother works at the school they both go to. Her and I used to get along really well. What did I do wrong? I told my husband about his daughter coming home infested with open and bleeding flea bites. I had to listen to my skids older sister tell me how bad the problem was. She told me the fleas were so very bad that a whole litter of new kittens died because of them.
We have been paying way too much cs.. i think its about time we get a lawyer and take gold digger bm to court!!! i have been doing some research since i am currently not working and I think if we get a lawyer (we did not have one when the judge ordered that rediculous amount)and fight for more time we might be able to lower atleast to half of what we pay right now!!! 
DH and I filed joint last year.. but I was doing some research on lowering his cs and I was wondering if that would affect us? btw I have a prenup so will it matter if we continue to file joint since I do have the prenup?
i'll try to keep this short. me and dh have been married for 8 months, known him for almost 4 years. He's not happy with me. He says i dont have enough passion for him, that I dont try enough (mostly on sexual issues -my sex drive definitely is not as high as his either) he's been feeling this way for quite some time. I have tried to make things better, spice things up, but its not a consistent thing. I do it for a few days and then i go back to being the same way as before. How do you guys keep passion and romance alive in the marriage?
This weekend went pretty smooth until...dun dun dun...(drumroll please...)
At 7 a.m. I am woken up to:
Unbelieveable....I pee'd my underwear and my bed a little bit...
Hello everyone, its been a long time but I've been hard at work and life! I hope your all doing well and I can't wait to catch up! Well BF and I are still together and doing much much better, but I will say it was not easy! After many long talks and several fights.. Things have actually changed quite a bit. BF no longer talks with bm unless its at pick up and drop off or confirming dates with skids.
-why not enforce some basic boundaries. Take a good look at a lot of the criminals out there. Do you want your kids to end up being like them? You may think, "why should I enforce rules? It's useless since they're with CP BM 80% of the time anyway." I say: you want to be able to know you did all you could to prevent your kids from being criminals. Even if they do become criminals, you want to be able to truthfully tell everyone you did your best. You should want to give your kids a fighting chance.
I am new to this site. First of in July I got married to a terrific women who has put up with alot of crap. I have three children from a previous marriage. Son 15 son 14 daughter 10. The children live with their BM in another county.
This will be my last entry for about a year or so. I won't be much of a stepmom while I am gone. 
I hope that I still have a family to come home to. I hope and pray that I am miraculously able to maintain the healthy relationship that I have with my stepsons in my absence.
More than anything, I hope and pray DH will be okay and that BM does not give him grief as I am not there to protect him.