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What would you do - drug addicted SS21 just texted me

karenemoy's picture

SS21 just sent me a text message asking me how I am doing. I am shaking. In addition to being a drug addict - SS21 just got out of rehab (again) and living in sober living facility in another state. He also is bi-polar. I feel bad but he just tells lies. I cant deal with him.

I am afraid he is reaching out to me because he wants something.

But I feel as if I dont respond he will do something and it will be my fault.

Do I just ignore him?

I really cannot deal with him - I am have SO much anger.

What would you do - drug addicted SS21 just texted me

karenemoy's picture

SS21 just sent me a text message asking me how I am doing. I am shaking. In addition to being a drug addict - SS21 just got out of rehab (again) and living in sober living facility in another state. He also is bi-polar. I feel bad but he just tells lies. I cant deal with him.

I am afraid he is reaching out to me because he wants something.

But I feel as if I dont respond he will do something and it will be my fault.

Do I just ignore him?

I really cannot deal with him - I am have SO much anger.

screaming BM --- what the hell do ya do???

cenrok's picture

Saturday morning we were getting ready to head out of town just the two of us for an overnight get away. I heard SD10 telling BM that she was staying with a sitter over night. Next thing I hear DH outside on his cell phone, BM was screaming so loud I could hear her inside the house. BM lives two states away, and has SD only during the summer. She accused us of never doing "anything" with SD. 3 weekends ago, we took SD snowmobiling, had a bonfire & roasted hot dogs.

I am not a happy camper

marissamae88's picture

So this weekend started out good. I got off work early on Friday and my SO was already at home because he was off. So I get home we head to the store and hung out and it was really nice. He had to work between 7-4 on Sat and that means I have no help when watching all four of the boys. He goes to work and the day isnt horrible but I was pretty bored. He gets home and he wants to go to his friends house. This friend is a good guy and I dont mind his wife but I just wanted to be with him not around a bunch of other people drinking, smoking and being obnoxious.

My DW the doormat....

paul_in_utah's picture

For those of you who have read my posts, you know that my SD17 has really ramped up her bad behavior lately. She has messed with my work laptop, locked the door the her room, and has had just a flat-out bad attitude for several weeks straight. Friday night was no different, but it was kind of a microcosm of her bad behavior, as she managed to hit on several of core issues. Here is what happened:

"You can't ban my daughter from our home"

Asher10's picture

Like hell I can't.Dh and I fought all weekend.He went from being understanding to being like the rest of the men being complained about on this site.When he realized I was serious about never letting sd in our home again it turned ugly.He told me it isn't fair of me to have him choose between his daugher and me.I told him he doesn't have to choose and he can visit her outside of our house.He told me i was being ridiculous and overreacting over an unfinished piece of clay.At that point I told him it's obvious he doesn't respect me and he doesn't respect my work either.He tried to deny it of

Godsgift's Birthday Weekend. . .Here's a Shocker. . .

Auteur's picture

NOT!

Decided to take Friday off to shop for GG's "beer frig." I come home on Thursday to a complete inebriated GG who is "amourous." :sick: :sick:

He's cooking dinner and put WAAAAAAAAAY too much pepper in; I like spicy food, he REALLY likes spicy food, but I believe all the booze was messing up his ability to TASTE.

I really resent my stepsons presence in my home

briarmommy's picture

I have been with my husband for almost four years, we have been married for 6months and lived together for a year before that. We were really happy and I was fine with my stepson at first he was always sweet to me and would try to behave the best that a 6 yr old can behave but that all changed. Right before we moved in together I found out I was pregnant, I love my husband so much but I almost had to leave him then. He had my stepson at 19 with someone he hated and then felt like he was forced to marry so he didn't want another child at that time so he asked me to consider abortion.

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