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SD13 - Need advice please (a little long)

Anywho78's picture

I have blogged before about SD13 but I’ve never gone into details on the behavior of SD13 or her sister (SD15)…I don’t plan on going too much into detail, but before anyone throws out “well, they’re teenagers”, please keep in mind that their GM (SO’s mother-who is lenient as HELL) has banned these girls from being in her home without SO present.

Seems like a lot of us had a hard day:

SASX's picture

Hope some of these one liners give you a small smile or chuckle.

If I have to "put my big girl panties on and deal with it" many more times, I'm gonna wear out the elastic and really show my a**!!

If you have a man that cheated on you, send the new girlfriend flowers and thank her for saving your life!

Awwwww, I missed you. *Reloads Gun* But I won't miss again!

Nah. I don't have an attitude problem, well I have an attitude but it's not a problem lol

I don't need anger management...don't piss me off and I won't get angry!

SS EXTREMELY Childish

NewBeginning's picture

Quick synopsis...

SS is soon to be 19..has another year of high school left and will graduate..IF he gradates..when he's almost 20. Mommy felt he had to be left behind. He spells horribly..has no attention span and defies all authority at school and is in ISS quite a bit. He's missed enough school that they have threatened to dismiss him if he misses anymore. He's an adult and they see him as that..no longer a minor.

Im just so tired of SD13!!!!!!!!!! What am I gonna do now that summer's coming?? UGH!!

Yme's picture

My Sd13 is such a nasty rude person.....she has stolen my daughter's Ipod....burned paper in my home and constantly LIES about me.......the disrespect is unbelivable....the fact that DH doesnt stop it hurts me to my core!!!!!!!!my list could go on and on........
DISENGAGE I know....but I need a mean wicked baby sitter...on who can see through the BS SD does and says....One to live in and saty with SD while I enjoy the summer with my Bio's......THEN I could "enjoy" my summer....

What is the best 50/50 version of custody, in your opinion?

SteppingUp's picture

Our current situation: we have SS3 Monday, Tuesday, Friday, Saturday, then Wednesday, Thursday the following week (it's technically just under 50/50 because it's 6 days every 14). The pros of this schedule is that we have him EOW so that's nice not to have him each wknd. Another pro is that if we want to go to something like a class that only offered on a Wednesday, we know that we can go at least once in 2 weeks. Also if the skids are in a weekly class like gymnastics, we aren't always the ones who have to take them on a certain night.

Three reasons why BM is a piece.

SteppingUp's picture

1. Last night we got hit with a huge storm and the tornado sirens were going off. FDH called BM to find out where she was and to see if they were all safe (she lives on 3rd floor of an apt building). She said she had no idea what was going on. He asked her if she could hear the storm and the sirens and she said yeah but she said that she has Direct TV so she doesn't have anything local to check the weather (nevermind she is on her laptop and phone internet allll the time). FDH told her she better take the kids to wherever in their building that is designated storm shelter.

Adult step son wants to move back in

lorimcq's picture

I have 4 step kids and 2 grown sons of my own. I've been married for 2 1/2 years, we dated for 5 years. My oldest step son is 20 and on drugs. He moved out of state 4 months ago and now wants to move back. A little history: 'P' we'll call him, dropped out of school, and lived with his mother most of the time. He stole from her, including his own brothers new school clothes, and sold all of the items for drug money. His mother threw him out so we let him stay with us rather than on the street.

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