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Fathers day shock and its a good thing

buttercookie's picture

My hubby has to work today, but oldest SS actually texted him, posted on his FB wall and got him a card. Its taken many years but I think Oldest SS is really growing up and I'm proud of him for acknowledging his father, now the other one, eeh not so much, we can hope the future will change this.

Becoming more disenchanted with Prince Charming by the minute

totallyoverit's picture

16 years married to my husband. I have one BD now 30 and 2 SSs. 38yr. old is a Radiologist and 34yr. old works for Transportation Dept. Both financially independent and married the eldest with two young boys of his own.

I am so sadly defeated by the nonsense that has been going on for years that I find I'm crying myself to sleep more often than I care to admit.

Thats what I get for thinking

snoopyinoz's picture

HA! Okay, today started out decent, the SDs weren't fighting like they usually do on the weekends, we all went with DH to run a few errands, yadda yadda yadda. Well........ we get home, and lo and behold! SD10 had told us that her chores were done. I had to call Bullsh*t on THAT one. so, I asked her WHY the dishes hadn't been done in 4 (Yes 4) days. her response? " I didn't FEEL like it." REALLY? I don't really give a damn what you FEEL like doing. (I told her to get them done, at 10:20 at night mind you. More on that in a minuet).

so far so good

lovebounderies's picture

Well I've been counting down the days till sd goes home and she goes home tomorrow. I decided to b nice and take her and my bd to the park both of them wasn't happy kids complain they bored next time they'll stay bored. My sd says to her dad why did we come to the park when my hair is messed up (mind u that's the way bm dropped her off). like it was his fault! she(bm) doesn't want me to do her hair. so that's her fault then sd complains about the clothes she had on (mind u she picks out her own clothes).

no bounderies

lovebounderies's picture

Y did my sd ask her dad don't he wish him & her mom could talk like they use to & he said yes now I wouldn't have a problem with it if that's all that would take place every time he does the whole friendship thing my sd's bm wants my husband @ her beckon call any time any where and my sd knows this she wants them back together so does the bm but husband can't see this when ever I say sumthng I'm always jealous or over acting my sd has become more clingy with her dad demanding his time when we try to spend time together she even goes as far as asking him to sleep with her until she f

OT-always hope even at 40...there are still good men out there w/out kids and crazy ex's!

herewegoagain's picture

Today I feel good. Things still are not good at home, but I feel liberated. I went and CHOPPED OFF MY HAIR. Ever since I was in highschool, anytime I broke up with some other idiot, I would go and chop off my hair...since most of the liked long hair...and I did it today...after years of long hair. And it feels great.

Alone

JAASY's picture

Does anyone else feel alone in a room with 4 people (my GF and her 2 kids)?

I feel like the sub at the end of the bench that is the last to be picked even of the ex/father who doesn't live with us?
Am I making it worse then what it really is, is my perception off, am I just feeling bad for myself?

I have their respect but I do not have their appreciation or love.

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