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I can see into the future! :jawdrop: SS1 arrested and on the 10pm news. BM new what he was doing and allowed him to use her house. He was the only one arrested???? WTF She should so have been parked in that back seat to. He is 3 weeks from 18th birthday and may be charged as adult. If that happens he is looking at 25 to life. When I first meet SS1 he wanted to go to harvard. I so just want to beat the holy SSSS out of BM for screwing up her kids so bad just to get back at BF. I do hope there is a VERY special place for her in hell.
SD15 can’t even pass an art class. She was taking six classes, failed five of them and only passed PE (amazing!)
It’s no wonder, since she absolutely refuses to do anything at school. She won’t do homework, doesn’t even both to do tests or quizzes or turn in assignments. I can’t believe how ridiculously easy it is to just scrape by these days in high school with binder checks and ability to retake tests and redo homework until its 100% correct. But no, SD doesn’t bother. School is beneath her.
Lets all dance!!
SS passed the peepee test and is officially sworn in!! I can go camping now!! We tried one time while SS lived with us and it did not turn out well at all. So we have just been waiting until he was safely in the military. Now is that day!!!!! I think I may leave early, grab the hubby and the RV and go play on a lake somewhere near by. (If we can find one with water!!)
Don’t have to worry about SS not coming home, don’t have to worry about him bringing a nasty ho in my house. Don’t have to worry about his little gangsta friends.
And here I thought we were done with this. Why won't she drop it?
Whenever it is our day to get SD back, I get depressed and extremely anxious. Even sick to my stomach over it. It isn't that she is soooo bad. She is annoying at times because she wants to play with me and her Daddy 24/7 but other than that she really isn't a bad kid. Why do I always feel this way though???? UGH! And if the exchange involves seeing BM..forget about it.
I have been married for 1 month but we have been together for 3 years. I feel like I'm just getting to know him in some ways.
http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/?p=17285
Which by inference, means there are more guilty daddies with children out there looking for a "good woman" to provide them:
1. childcare
2. maid/laundress service
3. chef services
4. financial support for previously enjoyed family
5. "fringe benefits"
But of course, with ZERO say as to what goes on re: their previously enjoyed family.
Single women. . .RUN!!!!
Had my first child 19 days ago and I couldn't be more in love with her. Only problem is now I can't even tolerate my SS. He has done nothing but be a rude, mean, manipulative shit and I dont want anything to do with him. Sad part is neither does his BM so he lives with us full time. It's getting really hard not to show my dislike. I have no desire to be around him or have him here.
I woke this morning thinking about my feelings toward the situation of my husband 's plan to bring his grandchildren here to visit. There was a time I felt close to these kids,in fact I spent almost 3 of the first 4 years of this marriage raising some of them to keep them out of the foster care system. After the last one went home I have not involved myself with any of them. Once again Katrinkie wrote a post that hit home for me,because I too had felt the children just did not want any relationship with me.
I am the BM of twins whom are 11 years old. I have a SS whom is 8 years old. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. Things are terrible. It is to the point on the weekends that he visits I start getting upset and angry that night prior. Let me just first start off by saying I am a very loving and patient person. I feel terrible that I feel this way towards my SS. My husband keeps assuring me things will get better but they are not. If anything they are getting worse. It is to the point that my BC do not even want to be home when he is here.
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