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DH received the dreaded football email from BM tonight. Exactly what I said a few blog posts ago would happen, happened. In her email, BM outlined that she has spoken with the coach and other parents with kids who have played junior high football and there will likely be optional Sunday practices. She highlighted that while they are optional, they will likely impact SS' position and team (A team versus B team) based on his "commitment" to football during those optional practices.
I feel so sorry for DH.
Recap: SD is not speaking with DH, for reasons unknown other than something to do with Auntie's passing two years ago. SS does speak with DH, but on his terms. Hasn't come to visit us in 10 years. All travel is on us. DH has developed serious health issues, and neither skid acknowledges that.
DH is having surgery next week. It's a common surgery but with his fragile health it is a little scary. DH texted both kids. Neither have responded or called after several days.
If anyone has experienced this let me know I am not alone.
I have a SD9 and SS11 and they lie. CONSTANTLY. So the trust for me is gone. The respect I have for them is gone. Has anyone ever trusted skids again? How did you get the trust back??
I posted a few weeks ago about my toxic job. As background, I loved my job until last Fall. I thought I was going to stay there for years. I had a great relationship with my manager, had a great relationship with my team, and felt content in the day-to-day. Well, I was "promoted" last September. I use air quotes because it was only a $1,500 raise, but double the workload was added to my plate. I didn't want this promotion, but couldn't I turn it down without losing my job. It was a "company restructuring effort."
Totally off topic, but...
My 93yo Dad has been admitted to the hospital for his heart. If you could spare a prayer or some positive energy, it would be greatly appreciated. It's a 24+ hour drive for me to to him and it might not even be necessary (could be medication). This Daddy's Girl is trying to stay calm.
Yesterday we had our anatomy ultrasound and found out we are having a baby girl!!! We are super excited and can't wait to meet our little one in 20 more weeks, half way there!
Ok so as per my last post I'm going to bow out of helping my husband figure out his insurance as I have reason to believe this is best for my mental health (and physical)
So every time SS16 is over I notice a shift with DH. For the longest time I couldn't quite put my finger on it- but today I was finally able to name it.
There will be times when SS16 is with us that DH will act patronizing and/or dismissinve toward me. This only ever happens when SS16 is in the room or within earshot. I have brought it up to DH in the past- and he apologizes and says that he wasn't aware he was doing anything but will pay attention to it. He says he's not trying to be that way, etc. etc.
Is it appropriate to exchange texts with a former co-worker (opposite sex) that you haven't worked with for 15 yrs? And said former co-worker has a proven reputation of hopping into bed with all of her co-workers, living with them for about 2-12 months then kicking them out?
It's been a long time since I posted here but thought I would ask if I was correct or not. Two weeks ago SD called her dad at 8:15 p.m. asking if he was in bed yet. He answered yes and asked why. SD said she was in our town and was on her way over. He got off the phone with her and I asked if she was coming over and he said yes. SD got there at 8:30 p.m. and I got pissed saying SD was rude and inconsiderate to just show up. SD has done this multiple times. SO got mad at me and I said this is my house and I have every right to say what I want.
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