Hello everyone I have a had a horrible weekend and it was so ridiculous. Please tell me your opinion on this. Friday my boyfriend realized he forgot his moms bday (it was 2 weeks ago). He panicks, tells me, and now I'm freaked becuase I had no idea it was her bithday either and i feel terrible that nothing was done for her. So we agree to have them come up and make them dinner, we got her flowers and I spent 2 hours making a bday cake for her. His mom was cool about him forgetting cuz shes alot older and prefers to not talk about her age, etc. But we decided it would be nice to do something anyways..so there was no hard feelings...

Hi. This is my first time here or anywhere looking for help online. Ive seen 2 therapists but have gotten no where. Ive been with my fiance for 3 years (lived with him for 2) and he has 2 kids 5 & 7 who for the most part are good. The first year of our relationship was right out of the divorce. i was left out constantly. to the point that even on christmas morning hed drive from my place to his exwifes and be there for when the kids woke up so they wouldnt be "traumatized". he'd help his exwife fix things around the house etc. The second year after the divorce my fiance took his son (who also lived with me parttime) to his exwifes house for the childs birthday party. My fiance went, my fiances best friend went, my fiances family went but I was not invited. All of these things were done "for the good of the child" so they "adjust" properly. ANd mind you they left OUR house, WITHOUT me, to go to a party at the ex wifes house. And he took along his friend and his family. i felt like a complete moron.