I'm just so sick of it all, all the baggage that DH brought into our marriage, SS and his problems, Bm and her crazy ways.

Seems BM is now spouting to everyone that she thinks will listen that she hopes that when i get pregnant that we lose the baby because it wouldn't be fair to SS to have to share his father or not have

SS is driving me nuts! He's 10 now so we don't send him to daycare, school ends at 3 so he's home by 3:30 and DH is home no later than 5 everynight.

Background information pertaining to story – DH didn’t know he had a son until SS was about 5 years old.

My mom had been watching SS until I got home since I don't want him alone with my pups after what he did (see previous blog), well she came outside the front door to talk to me and I guess SS didn't k

I am so ready to strangle SS and kill both BM and DH

DH is sick of her calling or texting all the time and wants to do all communication with her via either letter or email so that we can have everything documented.

BM is now stating that she's filing harssment charges on us because by sending her the letter stating that we weren't going to do anything for her was a harassment and that all the other letters we se

This letter is in regards to your numerous text messages and voicemails requesting a number of documents.

It seems that BM is now threatening to take us to court because we won't supply her with the following documents for SS...

Social Security Card
Parenting Plan
Birth Certificate
Short Records

This last year has been crazy because we got SS full-time and of course it has affect my work a bit, I'm not at the top of my game because everything is just hell at home.

Well I've got a improvtu performance review request from my boss today and I'm freaking out.

Well BM decided she was leaving the program she was in and took all the kids with her to some guys trailer (she meet him in rehab). Well that of course means that she doesn't get SS for the summer. It was only as long as she was in the program that she got SS for the summer.

DH and I spoke last night and we've decided to send SS to his mom's for the whole summer and only get him every other weekend. I'm so estatic to get a break and we won't be paying for daycare for the summer either!

We are filing contempt charges on BM for not paying any child support. Does this mean we have to go to court as well?

I'm so sick of court

A client of mine sent us some filet mignon steaks, DH was at home when the arrived, he started talking about making them for dinner for him and SS. I told him that I was saving the stakes for us to have a specil romantic dinner this weekend just DH and me.