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I have moved into my new place!!! No more every single day drama.

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Hello all,

I moved out of my home that I shared with hubby and two stepdaughters. It was was to much chaos! A lot of verbal abuse from hubby. A lot of hateful actions from youngest stepdaughter.

The place I moved to is sooooo peaceful. I feel like I am on vacation. No one is talking down to me, yelling at me or being disrespectful. This is probably the best thing I have done for myself in quite a while.

If you feel like you are living in hell because of the contant drama, arguments and or abuse - find help, support or get out.

Wooo Sawww

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All I could do is look at her and shake my head in disappointment.

I had a pile of clothing on my bedroom floor by my closet door stack together with a Dryell packet on top, because I was planning to do a small load of laundry. My youngest SD walks into my room to go to the second bathroom that is located in my room... She purposely steps on my clothing, and gives is a kick. She turns to look at me to see my reaction and then walks into the bathroom... like nothing happened.

I AM Moving OUT!!!!

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So I have come to a point where I realize that I can not live in my home with husband and step-daughters and still be happy and healthy. Things have been getting steadily bad, but this last year has been hell for me. And I just can't do it any more.

Hotel for Step-Mommy

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Ok... lol. Last night was ridiculous.... I can laugh about it now. But believe you me - I was pissed. I worked over-time last week, ever single day because I was hosting a week long event at my job. I then had a very busy weekend with the family. This week has been very hard because of my inability to catch up on sleep and just dealing with various stressful situations at home.

Staying in hopes of getting pregnant !!!?!?!!!

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Horrible Right?!?

Before you read this, please no that My husband is fully aware that I want to get pregnant. He is fully aware that are relationship is on the rocks. We have full conversations about this all the time. NO ONE IS BEING LIED TO OR MISLEAD.

I know that I am going to get a lot of criticism for this. It is going to sound really horrible, irresponsible and maybe even a little desperate.

Ding Dong the witch is dead (for 24 hours only)

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Ok... lol.

So I am not referring to an actual person. That would be cruel.

My youngest SD (9) has been very meanspirited toward me for quite a while. And no I dont want a pity party... lol. But I have been noticing for years when SD's birth mom actually comes into town (2 to 3 weekends out of the year), SD is actually nice to me around this time. Not in front of birth mom ofcourse! But when SD is around me at the time of brithmom's visit, she is actually nice.

Oldest daughter frustrating behavior

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My oldest stepdauther, who is usually my rock, did a flip flp today. In all realness, she is still a child (11 years old). But it still feels weird that she is usually the stable one, and that she ended up kind of freaking out today.

She asked if she could have her own email account seperate from the one that she already shares with me. I said yes, but only if her dad and I have her password. And only if she has the full knowledged that we can check her email at any time.

Avoiding being at home where I pay all the rent

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So stepdaughter (9 years old) has basically "won". I no longer want to be in my own home any more. I avoid it like the plague. I go to work early. And I work out at the gym in the evenings so that I can not only releive stress, but get home late.

Being at home right now is sooooooo stressful. My evil little stepdaughter has made my life a living hell. She is constantly looking for ways to make me feel miserable. Last night, she purposely made me upset and then smiled a really big smile of joy when she saw that I was angry.

Evil Evil Evil step daughter

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I am so annoyed and frustrated with my youngest stepdaughter. I've posted a few times that when ever she is in one of her brat/bitch modes she finds any way to ruin everyone's day. I was getting ready to leave for work this morning, and I could already tell by her behavior that she was in one of her moods. As I was trying to leave, I asked if she could step aside so I could use the mirror, because I had to go to work.

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