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It's over

I ended things with FH on Friday.
I am so so so sad and heartbroken. I miss his smile, miss being happy with him, miss his hands, miss so much.

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I just don't understand and am questioning everything- LONG and need feedback

I have posted many times about the relationship between FH and SS (almost 11).

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The ups/downs are making me feel hopeless

I feel like for a while in the late winter/early spring things were getting so much better-- FH seemed to "get" that things in his life, his household, and even with his son can/should change a bit to

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What is PAS?

I keep seeing this acronym in reference to bio-parents who are denying access to kids, are aggressive, etc.
Thanks! And so happy to have StepTalk back!

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Need support in opening email from BM! (long post)

I have posted a number of times about the totally dysfunctional and unhealthy way of interacting that FH and BM have. Their relationship makes me very sad for FH and feel so much anger towards BM.

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Follow-up to SS10 wanting to "talk"

I have a follow-up question to the one I posed about this earlier in the week-- most folks who replied said to be open to talking with him, to feel good about him wanting to open up.

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2 great resources

Hi everyone,

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Need advice! SS want to "talk"

So, there is so much background that I would want to talk with anyone about.

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Why does FH submit to so much abuse, manipulation, and narcissicism from the ex?

I don't get it-- do any of your FH or DH submit to/accept so much from their exes?

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Need a little encouragement

After about 6 months of struggle after we decided to get married, the last few months between FH and me have really just been wonderful.