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FH is crushed

These issues all of us deal with related to step/blended/whatever you call them families are so complex!

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Relief, happiness, and finally hope

I am so happy to post something happy!

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Has anyone had this happen?

My schedule/life with FH is complicated. I work 3 hours away and so am gone from either late Sun PM/early Mon AM through Thurs morning.

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Is it a lie-by-ommision?

Hit with another whammy! I am sick to my stomach. How fast all of this starts again- literally immediately when SS came back after having 10 days with just the two of us...

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Every time I think he "gets it," I realize he doesn't (v.long. mostly to vent)

I've posted a great deal and replied to posts about my FH and his relationship with SS10 (his bio son)- whom he's described as "his peer." Always treated him like his partner, taken him to adult parti

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Putting a dog to sleep- why does it trigger so much? (very long post)

I just need to vent.

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Why does connection equal disconnection?

To have "connection" w. SS why does FH have to disconnect from me?

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Feeling guilty

I have worked hard in a short time to accept my feelings- my FH and I never had a hard time until we got engaged 4 months ago.

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Speaker phone pisses me off

Admittedly, my FH is absent-minded and often loses his headphones. But I know he has them today b/c we talked this morning with him using them!

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New to this

HI everyone,