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Can't stand my inlaws...

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Well our schedulling delima is worse...the fuckers decided that they need to have the family reunion start at 10 am instead of 2pm until when ever on the 27th...so its like sorry dear two year old your third birthday will not be happening because of daddy's selfish family and his inability to grow a pair and not go for the whole frikien day....and these people barely acknowledge our kids existense so its not like we can just do his birthdya at the reunions with them...what fun is that blow out the candles , make a wish with these people you don't know and see all the presents you don't get.

Putting The Kids in the Middle

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OH my for the last 10 years we have all been upset when BM puts the kdis in the middle to work her own agenda and I just got another phone call from SD15 infroming me that my in laws are still trying to use my step kids to get thier way for Christmas plans. In october we all sat down with the inlaws to plan Christmas and picked the weekend before and that we would host it. Well more inlaws like my DH's aunts and uncles are now getting together the 27th.

I broke all the rules in pyschology for marriage class...

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So when I was dating, egnaged to and living with my husband I laughed at my psychology professors rules for a successful marriage...there is a long list of them and I don't recall them all but there are several that stick out and now after 5 years of marriage being hard I maybe should have listened to some of those rules...
1) never marry someone whom has been married before...oops!
2) never marry someone whom has kids...double oops and twins at that!

I know a secret about my MIL

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Ok I know something about my MIL because my mom and her are best friends that my DH does not know yet and its killing me. I keep encouraging him to stop by her house for this and that so she can tell him the news. She is moving 2 hours away and I think my hubby will freak. He has already freaked that his siblings all ditched town and hate to come back for visits, he's going to go through the roof when he finds out that his mother is moving. He already hates that she doesn't make the effort to see us when she lives two blocks away unless she wants something...

Once Again DH just doesn't get it.

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I am so flipping mad right now. Remeber how I blogged awhile back about my son, our son not wanting his Big Half Brother...SS15 to go to watch his wrestling practive and crying about it. Well I figured tonight is not our night to have the stepkids so my son would get his chance to have some attention at practice without his big brother trying to compete for his father's attention. I planned to go tonight for the firts time, me work schedule, kid's health and the blasted head lice SD15 gave our household all kept me from going in the past...well tonight I WAS going to go.

Having A Nice Weekend

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Having a Nice weekend at home. The step kids are with thier BM helping her after surgery. DH is being super kind to me after his grumpy mood all week. We are housecleaning...AND HE IS HELPING ALOT!!! The lice seems to be gone from every ones heads, and so has the itching...our hair was so nit free we got our hair cut. I finally got to cut off enough to donate to locks of love in memory of a cousing, in honor of SD surviving cancer and in support of an aunt fighting cancer right now.

Itchy scratchy

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OK I have treated myself for the lice I found on Monday with the RID stuff. Still found more Tuesday so tried another treatment with olive oil and vineigar...I've been combing my hair every day but I still itch. Ive done the listerine thing and I still itch. Does that mean I still have it? How long does it take for the itching to stop? Help please from anyone whom has been there...it also does not help that I can't stop thinking about it and that makes my skin crawl but I really do itch. So do I still have it?

I am onto a master plan of deception...HA HA HA HA

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I'm entertaining myself with some evil demise and I'm trying to think of solutions to my problem right now grumpy DH and the type of hubby and father he is becoming with his lack of wisdom and lack of patients and lack of effort, and just plain I dont care attitude about life right now....Oh wow I just got an idea. The wicked step mom is on to something but actually on to a master plan to help my husband be a better father...

OMG SS15 can't stand the competition from a 5 year old.

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SS15 can't stand that our five year old is going out for pee wee wrestling through his school and learning something he isn't so guess what tomorrow he is going out for high school wrestling with a messed up shoulder just because he can't stand that my son is getting attention for a sport that SS15 has never done. SS15 is in Karate, and Baseball.

Feeling Beat Down

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I am just feeling beat down, run down and torn up. I am so exhausted with trying. Things have never gone well with the step kids. Things are tense with me and DH. He wants an easy way out. I just want a happy family for my boys... with or with out him...On top of out relationship issues we are facing bankrupcy, maybe even forlcosure on our house and of course it is all my fault because I used credit cards to make up for our lack of income when we did not have enough to get by. I pick up the over time when I can.

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