unbelieveable's blog

I am doing it. I am finally packing up and going...I can't take the stress anymore. FMIL is so crazy she is wrecking everything.

This weekend was really fun after the drama of getting kids from BM (if you read my last post that was not agreed with by too many...)

I know I know...I am posting again.

I had a conversation with fsd7 this weekend...

I don't mind getting the kids on the days we are not supposed to have them - and adjusting the schedule if they have bday parties BUT what if we have plans?

So...

I treat the fsd's fairly. I try to do things with them like play-doh, reading, coloring, painting nails...

So...I am learning to ignore SD7 and just call her out in front of her dad...and then she actually gets punished and I have even learned to stand up to future monster-in-law when she trashes me for no

Has anyone read any books about Stepparenting? I won't set a wedding date because everything is such a mess.

I have just been thinking...I do everything I can for having future step children I never asked for. I never wanted children. I picked school, career, having a life of my own, over having children.

I'm no longer playing games with BM. For now on, when I have something to say, I'm saying it. When I have a problem with the things she is teaching her daughters...I am going to tell her.