I had a baby boy, cute little thing. He is now almost 3 mos old. He is a joy! biomom and I are in talking mode and not fighting lately. She came to visit me at the hospital when my son was born and even brought gifts for the baby.

So this year I get a gift from biomom & ss for the 1st time, in 8 years of knowing these 2 for my bday. What could this mean? What does she want or expects? Is it because my new baby is arriving soon and she wants to be close to me to see the baby when delivered?

I'm on my last trimester of pregnancy and my PUPPP is back, I had it with my 1st child.....it's intense itchy rash that comes and goes, worse at night. I stayed up til' 3am last night! No cure, my dermatologist prescribed an ointment for the rash but it doesn't work.

So I pick up SS from school yesterday because it's our visitation day, husband was busy at work so I offered to pick him up. When I get there, SS doesn't speak to me the whole time on the way home, like he fricken hates me or something or doesn't want me to pick him up.

What do I make out of this? So I've been talking to my mil regarding the nasty things that BM is doing. Everytime I share my troubles and frustrations regarding BM, my mil says nothing to me and just agrees and then that's it.

Just wondering cause it seems like everyone has issues w/their current situation w/BM being in their lives and all. I want to know if you do have a good relationship w/BM, how did you do it and tell

I'm going to ignore her from now on. Maybe that will irritate her even more. She is such a fake, one day she'll tell me she wants to be friends and work things out for the best of ss, then next thing you know she is sending nasty emails to my husband, ignoring my phone calls when I need to ask something regarding SS.

I was just curious, is anyone out there from Honolulu? If yes please respond.

what is your feelings about this? i want to know.

As you know I'm not in good terms w/biomom. I am thinking of not accepting any gifts from her. Not gifts to me of course but for my daughter and if any for the new baby coming up. How would you handle this?

So on father's day I call BM to ask if SS had gotten a gift for his dad, BM never picks up her cel phone when I call so I left a message to call me back. Does she call back??? NO. I'm so irritated by her childish actions.

It's really hard to deal with that fact... The fact that this ex still has to communicate w/my husband about their child together. I can't stand the exwife & everytime she needs to talk to my husband or email him I get all irritated inside....

so I had one done recently. i truly believe this psychic, i've seen her before. this was my 2nd time around. she said that bm hates my guts and is very jealous of me. so no sense in trying to be friends with her, no matter what i do it won't matter.

so bm finally tells us the custody schedule for summer. without even asking if the schedule is ok w/us....just tells us. 2 weeks w/us and then she goes to vegas for 2 1/2 weeks. we are suppose to split the summer equally and so far it looks like it's not divided equally.

I'm just wondering if anyone else is in the same position as me. SS doesn't speak to me when he visits us. He is quite and says nothing to me, not even a hello. He only speaks when I ask him a question.