As some of you know, I have a Myspace account, and on there, I have posted photos of my family and some of our activities. My family includes my SO's daughter, from marriage number 1 and kids, as well as his mom and brother. They have all accepted me and treat me really, really well.

For those that know my story....my SO and I thought he had lost his boys (ages 18 and 20)forever, or at least until they get out from under BM. She has used every alienation tactic that exists to get her kids to hate their dad and me.

So miss perfect, wonderful, mom of the year, or at least that's what she claims to be when talking to my SO, lets him know last night that their 18 year old son won't graduate high school this year. WTF!!! She said he missed too many days last year, because he was so emotionally distraught over their divorce(but not too distraught to get a new car from his dad (dad didn't know he wasn't going to school, or flunking out), go out with his girlfriend and guy friends almost every night, get on MySpace, and play video games all night, play hockey all winter and spring, etc...), just too distraught to go to school. She let him stay home. This is the first we have heard of it. My question is, is this not something important! Wouldn't you be doing everything you could to get your child into summer school or something so he's not 20 years old when and if he ever graduates!!! This kid just hung out all summer long. Didn't do a damn thing, even though he promised his dad he would get a job last summer. SO is calling attorney tomorrow. This is so riduculous. Ex is now trying to claim both children (18 and 20) are now severely handicapped because of his decision to leave them 3 years ago, and she says he'll pay for it in court...divorce isn't final yet due to property issues, but looks like she's going to try to pull something else.

I'm finally getting the hang of this!

I wrote in my previous post about the ex calling my cell phone to harrass me...well she has tried all day to reach my SO without success...he's not talking to her. He's got enough stress from his job right now, and just can't deal with her. So yet again, she calls me.

My SO and his wife have been separated 3 years...we've been living together for one. Met through his daughter who really loves me well after they were separated. STB ex-wife didn't care at all about trying to get him back until I came into the picture and then she went all out this past Nov. Has tried and pulled everything to try and get him back, including totally alienating his kids. Their marriage had been over for years even before he left. The only reason he stayed as long as he did was because he was always gone traveling for his job, so he didn't have to put up with her too much, and he didn't want to hurt his kids. Anyway...