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SD kicks BM out

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Well that did not last long.

We went to one of SDs skids games and no BM. I wasn't really surprised, she'll avoid us when her life is a mess. Another family member asked me what I think of BM living with SD and her SO? I had no opinion, but my face said otherwise. They said well, it'll be ok now that SD has kicked BM out!

Karma bus hits BM, sideswipes SD

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So it seems that BM is in terrible financial trouble. We are not surprised, well maybe just a bit that it took so long.

She built a vacation home with her exBF, they broke up just as it was finished. She couldn't afford to live in it, so she rented it out, while it was for sale. It was eventually sold and a tidy profit was made. She refused to give exBF any of the proceeds, saying he left and she had all the responsibilities of the house, and he sued her.

Oh BM

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Grannyd and I were saying on another blog how we are happy that the BM couldn't see what a good man they had let get away and how happy we were to have found that man.

DH and I were at SDs skids game and BM, who was also there, kept going on about how one of the players reminded her of DH when they first met. They were HS sweethearts. She had stories of DH as a teenager. The only one listening was ME! BM was desperately trying to get DH to reminisce about the old days and how young they were and so on. DH was concentrating on the game.

just need to vent

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Life has been wonderful. Skids are all good, BM hasn't been a problem. SS(30) just got married, everyone was pleasant and got along just fine! It was a really lovely wedding, no drama, great speeches, happy, happy, happy.

Then we got a phone call from SD(33) saying to expect a call from BMs exBFs lawyer??

Oh my, where to start?

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Get your popcorn!

SD (31, no kids, never married or lived with anyone, but has had serious relationships) has a new BF. We just met him this summer, they met on an online dating site and have been talking/emailing/facetiming dating for a while. He's 35-38ish, divorced (1-2 years?), 3 kids (son 9, daughter 5-6, daughter 3-4), and was brought up morman.

SD (31) dating man with 3 kids

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SD(31) has never been married or lived with anyone. She's had some long term relationships but never with anyone with kids.

We only just found out that she's dating this guy, not even sure how serious it is but she is bringing him to a family wedding. Which is big in this family.

He's 39, has 3 kids, between 12 and 3. He's Mormon, she is spiritual but has no affiliation with any church, certainly not Mormons. I have had very good friends who are Mormon and know a bit about the religion.

This should be interesting!

BM must insert herself in everything!

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My FIL had a heart attack a couple of weeks ago. He is 77 years old and we were not sure he was going to make it. He ended up having a quadruple bypass and is doing very well.

We were all waiting to see if FIL is going to have to have emergency surgery or if they can stabilize him. He was getting IV drugs but was still in a considerable amount of pain. Surgery would have been dangerous at that point but there might not have been a choice. SD(30) has told BM what's happening but didn't have a long conversation with her.

Finances, just a rant

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DH and I have combined finances. We always have and for us it isn't a problem. I have recommended to others on here that they separate their fiances but for us, combined works.

My problem of late has been that SD told DH she was upset that DH and I say that "we" put her and SS through school.

SD has told DH that I have never made enough to support her and SS during school and that it was his money that supported her. That she wants me to stop telling people I supported her financially.

Oh where to start

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SD is angry with me. BM has her convinced that I said something terrible about her in the summer. It didn't happen but who cares, BM thinks it did.

There is a lot more to the story but that's the gist of it. BM doesn't want SD to like me, she never has and after 11 years she's succeded in alienating SD from me.

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