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I didn't expect to hate it this much ...

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So we have had full custody for about 7 months now, and I just hate it. I try so hard not to and to help these kids, and I am meet with ungratefulness and end up disappointed. I don't have any babies of my own, that plays a big part of my unhappiness. I have no one to talk to. The other step mom "support" groups say "you married into it and you knew he had kids before you married him" "suck it up, kids will be kids". I'm so over all of it. BMs mom, GMA, is all in my business telling me how to do laundry. These kids want want want with not much given in return.

No' Money, Mo' Problems

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These girls are killing me. The eldest got her aunt to get her a replacement cell phone but she expects to be able to do chores here to pay for it. So her aunt signed her up for a phone for me to pay for...ummm...no. The twin girl child skipped visitation again this weekend to avoid chores for the money we gave her 2 weeks ago for a school outing. Argh. The longer she puts it off, the worse the chores are gonna be.

Manipulative Little Suckers

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These kids!!! Ughhhh!
SK13 asked for money to go to the amusement park with her class Friday. Dad took it to her Tuesday with the agreement she was to come do chores for the money Saturday. Thursday she messaged Dad and said she had step throat. He said then she can't go with her class and he would come pick up the money. Then she said she didn't want to expose my mom to strep if she was still contagious...how thoughtful. This morning I read on Facebook that she had a great time at the big birthday party yesterday!