I have been crying a lot since Saturday night. Saturday evening my boyfriend and I had an argument. He applied for a job a while back ago and just got a letter in the mail saying they aren't going to hire him. He was understandably frustrated, especially since they put him through multiple interviews and assessment tests for over a year. He said he wondered if his ex-wife might have said something negative about him that might have had an impact. But when he said it, he referred to her as his wife. I immediately said "Ex!" he said that's what he meant, but it still upset me.