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Overcompensating with gifts

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SO again with this problem. My BF wants to get this 9 year old an ATV. Am I exaggerating or is he too young. The kid doesnt even ride his bike around the house. It's so annoying how spoiled this kid is and what a brat he is. My BF parents went out of town to go to a horse race and they took the skid. Not only did they take him on a trip that kids have no business going on but they took him out of school one day just for that!

estranged daughter?!

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Just found out the boyfriend has an estranged daughter who he hasn't seen or heard from in over 5 years. The mom got married and told him she wants nothing to do with my boyfriend and took the daughter. She told him to sign adoption papers and never sent them. I just found out after 3 years of being with him. What if she decides to come into our life again? I have no kids and he has a son and now this daughter.

Stupid Lazy BM!

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So last night BM said she would bring skid over which I was surprised because she always has my BF or his family pick up the kid. Then 10 min go by and skid calls my BF and says " my aunt is going to pick me up tomorrow morning so I cant come over any more daddy"
Interpretation:
She didnt want to drive skid over to us so she made up that stupid lie and now of course my stupid BF just picked him up from her house!
She is such an idiot!

baby talk?

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Is it normal for a 9 year old boy to talk like a baby? He very capable to speak appropriately he has no deficits but he insists on talking like a baby and making cooing sounds? He also likes stuffed animals? Does anyone have a skid like this?

3 weeks to celebrate a birthday??

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So skids mom takes the kid out of state to celebrate the kids bday and they came back a few days after his actual bday. So my boyfriend decides this weekend we are to have a bday party for him at his house and the following weekend we are to take him to an amusement park to continue to celebrate… he is turning 9 by the way. Are you freaking kidding me? Its not like I'm paying for any of it but still annoying.

feelings towards skid

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I feel bad about saying this and I'm sure I have said it before but I can't stand the skid! I wish he would hurry up and grow up already. Now I understand why in moves the step mother is the evil one and wants the kid to be shipped away. I just don't have it in me to be affectionate or have a cute nice name for my BF son (8 yr old). He is just such a brat. And to top it off I feel like when he hugs me or talks to me and says something sweet its so fake! is it possible for an 8 yr old to be fake?

plans ruined

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So I was excited on having a night out to relax have some drinks, maybe gamble a little at the casino to celebrate BF moms bday. Course that is not going to happen. They have the kid with them and no one to watch him because of course it would be impossible to have BM take him. SO what is the plan for the night? BBQ at his parents house. Same old thing as always.
Annoyed.

Cant stand the little brat

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I was getting along well with the kid but yesterday I could not stand him! He is so rude and has no manners. Has no one taught you not to interrupt when adults are talking? I try to talk to him but he ignores me or acts like he doesn't hear me that little brat. Today we are going shopping because he needs a new Easter outfit yaaaaay! Cant wait! NOT. BF has had him all week as usual and BM wants us to drop him off at her BM's mothers house on the opposite side of town and then pick him Sunday again. Why can't her stupid ass pick him up??

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