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What is my place as a SM?

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My soon to be SS is currently acting out (has been) and his BF & BM have got one opinion from a Doctor of ADHD. I believe it to more than that based on research i have done. What is my place here do i continue to urge them to get a second opinion or just sit back and deal with it. I feel like i am putting more into it than they are?

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So my soon to be SS who is 8 he acts out and is both hurtful physically and verbally to others as well as myself, BF and BM. He recently got himself expelled form catholic school. Punishment nothing has helped. He has no fear of punishment or consequences, he has no remorse or empathy. I feel I am beginning to resent him (SS). How do i get over this feeling or attempt to control it. I have no children of my own and he leaves his BF in tears where he tells me he is not sure if he wants children or not.