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Wish me luck!

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We haven't talked to SD15 in a few months. She keeps randomly texting saying she wants to come and see "her" dog. Yesterday it was "I want to come and take MY dog for a walk with my new boyfriend". Bitch please, its not your dog. Has never been your dog. I know she's just trying to piss DH off. He ignored her. He's told her several times, if you want to take the dog for a walk I will gladly take you.

Advice Needed - New Baby coming soon

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My first baby is due the middle of October.
Over the last few years things have been very rocky with SD15. One day she loves us the next day she hates us.
When she found out I was pregnant she was really excited and wanted to be at our house all the time (Which was really annoying), but then one day she just suddenly refused to talk to DH and he hasn't talked to her in a couple of months. Theres years of issues with BM brainwashing her etc.
I'm over it and I don't get involved anymore, I don't talk about her, I don't encourage DH to call her etc.

Nothing is ever good enough for this Bitch

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As previously posted, SD15 didn't call on fathers day and hasn't spoken to DH in like 2 weeks.
I spoke to MIL about it and ofcourse she tried to blame it on BM saying she probably didn't tell SD it was fathers day. Anyways MIL questioned SD on it and apparently she knew very well it was fathers day. She said happy fathers day to BMs new husband but not DH because she "he doesn't try". He doesn't know her teachers name, hes grumpy all the time, he doesn't know that its my grad....blah blah blah....all crap that BM has put in her head.

Fathers day

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The little shit didn't even CALL him!

She is so friggin messed up. I knew this was going to happen and this is exactly the reason why I disengage from SD15.
As soon as she finds out im pregnant she wants to be around us 24/7. I knew the novelty would wear off. She went from calling 3 times a week asking to come over and then one day BAM she just doesn't call him or talk to him for a week and a half. And then to not even call him on fathers day??!

Preggo and stressed with SD15

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I'm currently 22 weeks preggo and since we told SD15 she's been soooo clingy.
She wants to come over all the time. IT's fine, I don't mind that she comes over to spend time with DH but I really just want her to leave me the F alone and DH pushes that we get along better.
Its not even that we don't get along. I just don't talk to her really. I don't want to. I don't like her. She has treated both DH and I like crap too many times. She blew it and now our relationship will never be the same.

I dont wannnnaaaaaaa.........

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K I need some advice here. I need to know if this is just me being a terrible bitch or if other SMs are like this.
I just generally am not a huge fan of SD14. A) I don't like teenagers in general Dirol Shes been super shitty to SO and me over the past couple years and theres other reasons. Generally that shes just super annoying and clingy.

Advice needed from first time mamas

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I haven't posted in a long time.
Things have not been going great with SD14. BM and her fiancé have brainwashed her real good. She tells DH hes a bad dad, says she doesn't want to see him etc. but then a week later shes calling to come for a visit. (Backstory, she has some developmental and social delays and behavioral issues.

Selfish rant and I dont care....

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I haven't posted in a long time, mostly because I shut myself off from SD15 and BM. There has been so much drama, but I have been ignoring it and so has SO.
I've finally had enough.....today was the last straw. I am done putting up with BM brainwashing SD.
This kid actually had the nerve to tell SO he was a "bad dad" last week. Today she texts him something along the same lines, tells him not to contact her anymore.

Un-effing-believable

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Like I really needed more drama to add to my life. This is absolutely insane and I'm ready to crack!

BM has been harassing us lately like crazy. She even went to SO's boss and told him that he doesn't pay his child support (not true. He pays her every single month).

Long story short, they used to go through an agency. SO would pay the agency, agency would pay her. He switched jobs early 2013 and BM said that she didn't want to go through the agency anymore, so we said ok, and assumed that she told the agency that we weren't using them anymore.

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