Well, fellow STalkers, I think I finally did it. DH (or just H now) and I had our final argument about BM.

I've been semi-disengaged for several months. I was tired of being a "parent" only at the convenience of H and his family and not being able to set rules in my own home. Also, I was tired of telling H how to deal with BM in order to keep things low contact and lessen her influence/control in our lives only to have him do the complete opposite and later complain about how she was ruining his life.

I have to admit that I laughed my ass off when I read your post (yesterday I think?) about your DH stomping around the house with his gorilla arms, slamming stuff down on his night table, jumping into bed, etc. I know it wasn't supposed to be funny, but I have brought this up to my DH SOOO many times. He is literally the loudest walker I have ever met in my life. And everything he does makes noise. He just doesn't know how to do things softly, gently or quietly. Unloading the dishwasher? Lots of banging and clanging, drawers and cabinets slamming shut. Getting ready in the morning?

A lot of this is in previous blogs, but to briefly sum up, BM filed a complaint on DH for CS arrears a couple of months ago in retaliation to him asking her to stop stalking him at his place of business. Her fee-fees got hurt so she was trying to have him arrested for non-payment. However, he has been paying regularly (just not the full amount) so the CS office simply scheduled a hearing for a CS review.

Hey everyone! There seems to have been more blogs and forum topics on CS lately than usual. I guess it's because of tax season. I have posted my personal thoughts on it before, but only as comments to others' posts. So I thought I'd do a blog on my personal opinion of CS today and see where it goes. Clearly, I am bored!