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Obsessing over SD

So tired of waking up every day and the first thing on my mind is not how I'm going to handle my day and the tasks I have for the day, but how am I going to handle SD11.

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Since this is a Venting Site...

I have a vent. My SD11 must be the most strange and socially inappropriate kid in the world. It's not just recently. When I met her, she was 5 yrs old.

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Wrong Direction

I heard some lyrics the other day and can't stop thinking how sad. 7 yrs ago, I started this journey through step-hell pain. At first, I had no idea the pain I was walking in to.

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DH Gave up on Parenting SD but we have Full Custody

We've had full custody of SD11 for 5 yrs now. SD has major behavioral/hygiene problems. As a pre-teen and Pre-menstrual girl, this is NOT good.

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Does Anyone have a Defensive DH/DW?

Yes, I know it's all my fault--it always is...

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BM Disappeared

BM disappeared. DH got a letter today from CS asking him to provide any information on BM's last known address, employer, or anyone who might know her whereabouts.

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"WE" need to figure out what to do with the kids?? Suck it, DH.

I'm going to catch all kinds of shit for this but....here it goes. DH was talking excitedly about where we will go for his big retirement honeymoon.

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Felling like my house is "None of my business"

Does anyone get tired of having a skid live with you full time BUT all the issues dealing with the kid are "none of your business?" It really feels demeaning to be squeezed out of even minor decision

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I'm Glad SD Doesn't Look Like Me, Buuuuttt......

Has anyone else ever had an awkward moment when you go out to a social event and every stranger you meet wants to ask questions about the skid...then they make comments like, "SD looks more like her d

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DH is out of town for 2 days and SD won't shut up!

If you read my previous post of how SD11 refuses to speak when I'm in the same room with DH, this is a complete opposite scenario.