Dreamer's blog

I know I'm posting alot today, sorry. BM just called "me!" She wanted to know if it was ok to highlight SD12's hair (BM is a REALLY bad hairdresser). WTF? She's NEVER asked our permission for anything before. She says it's b/c "SD12 lives with you now" not "because the "girls" live with you now". I wonder if she talked SD11 to moving back in with her.

I found this while looking at youtube. It's heartbreaking. She needs our website!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ll9RgtRmiQ0

We constantly Blog about the states we live in not recognizing step parents. That it's like we don't exsist in their laws.

Well yesterday I went to fill out the benefits papers for my new job. It's a state owned school so it means great benefits. DH and I had talked about it and I told him I wanted benefits through my new job and he said he had to get benefits through his job b/c of the skids.

I got a free couch today! And boy did we need it!

When DH and I moved to Georgia, to care for my father, we knew we would be living with him so we got rid of alot of furniture (all mine from before we married). Well after we moved out of dad's house we couldn't afford furniture at all due to the CS. All we had was our bed and a few pots and pans. Oh and of course DH 5 deer heads that he could never part with (yuck!). In the two years since then we found dressers in a yard sale, a table at a flea market, and a love seat that had been returned on clearance. We are even renting to own the girls beds. Some of you know how it is, BM gets all DH's money and you pay all the bills so there's nothing left over.

I'm free till next Friday! No skids! Their BM ACUALLY! showed up! Can you beleave it? SD11 asked if I would tell her BM her feeding schedule. I said "Do what?" She said if I don't tell her BM then BM won't cook for her and she'll have to feed herself. I laughed. For a week know SD11 has been a pain in the butt complaining about my home, my cooking, and everything else. I told her it's one week you'll survive.

I was so wrapped up in reading posts I forgot all about it. No really I love you all.

Today in a good day! The girls are at camp, DH is at work, and I'm home aaallll... alone The skids are suppose to be picked up tomorrow by their BM too. If she comes... But I really don't care. If she doesn't then the skids will know once again what I lier she is. We've told them in the past that the things she said about DH and I were lies and now she helping to prove it.

When we got there the state had SD12 a lawyer. After I told him what happened he told me I had filed the wrong charges against her. He said I should have filed battery, criminal trespass, and criminal mischief. The battery for hitting, and the trespass and mischief for breaking and throwing things. He said I didn't do her a favor for not fiing the charges.

We've got to go to court today for SD's fit back in May. I don't know why but I'm nervous. I know nothing is going to happen to me. SD12 was upset about it yesterday. She kept saying I've been good for the past four days. Yeah well four days don't make up for three months. DH talked with BM two days ago and she's pissed that I'm still going through with it. BM said we are doing it to punish her... umm ok... I think she's fishing for excuses and reasons not to come get the girls today. I won't be surprised if she doesn't show up.

The skids loved camp yesterday! And I loved a few minutes to myself! They did have to come home early though. SD12 peed in her plants! I know it shocked me too. By that age you would think she would go to the bathroom or ask someone where it is. DH was shocked too.

I went to the store a minute ago and ran into one of the Elementary school teachers. She told me drama camp was going on at the park this week, here in town. Small town and everyone, no matter if they know us or not, knows we are broke. She invited the Skids to go to camp this week for FREE! Yeah!