goldenlife's blog

I am in the process of losing my wonderful husband.

Background: He has two children from a previous marriage, D15 and S13. The 13-year-old boy is a constant source of conflict and has been for the 3 1/2 years we have been together. The entire time we have been together has been MAJOR DRAMA from their mother. DH could only have supervised visitation when we were engaged, during our wedding and the first 4 months we were married because he was under court order. All of that came to nothing and everyone went on like nothing had happened (except for monumental legal fees!)

Have any of you ever sued BM for harassment? I am so tired of her slanderous lies, filling the SKIDS heads with garbage and idle threats, I want to shut her up once and for all.

Any suggestions?

What do your skids call you?

When we were dating, my skids called me Ms. (first name). My SS still does but his older sister SD14 recently started calling me by just my first name. I don't want to cause any more drama than we already have had, but when I was coming up, you just didn't call adults by their first name. this feels disrespectful to me.

"Evil has cockroach endurance".

This line was in a Dean Koontz novel I just finished, "The Husband". And damn, if it didn't remind me of BM!

We just found out we are going back to court! Last year it was to TERMINATE visitation and this year it is to ENFORCE visitation, make up your mind, EVIL ONE!