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Good Morning Everyone!!

It has been a long time since I have been on the site. Life is going great! Been crazy husband and skid free for a full year now! YAY!!! My kids are doing great, and are thriving and doing so well in school- just had to brag for a second!! Biggrin

Kids and Cell Phones

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After my weekend from Hell, I was thinking about cell phones. Since my ex was in total refusal to let me talk to my kids after dragging them out of my home and his wife trying to break down my door when I wouldn't release the kids to her, only to their father because they were so upset, I was thinking I would get them a phone. I am still in total shock that this woman told me she had full parental rights to my children and said "Give me My kids, Now!". She is bat shit crazy.

How should I handle this?

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As many of you know my relationship with my children's father is not the greatest. A little refresher for those who don't know/remember: this is the guy who, while we were married, would lay in bed at night crying that he never wanted children and they they destroyed his life. He says that my son is obese yet refuses to take him to any sports practice/game for the last 4 years. He constantly promises my kids things like Disney vacations and then right before they are "planning to go" he cancels. He spent several years in a bipolar downswing that led to our divorce.

Been almost 2 months and still feel like this was the best decision EVER!!

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I just wanted to stop in and say HI!! It is a little weird that I miss coming here but there is no reason to any more. I can't thank all of you enough for the support you gave me at some of my darkest times, I will forever be grateful to you all!

Me and my kids are doing so well, everything has worked out so freaking beautifully it is pretty amazing. My kids are happy, I am happy, I even have more money back as a single mom! Go figure??I haven't heard from stbEx hubs in a few weeks, Thank God!

So stbex AHH has been hacking my FB!

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I couldn't figure out how he was doing it. He did it again this morning and wrote on my wall that "I am having an affair with a married man and I just want to let everyone know"

Thankfully I set up a notification for when anyone logs into my account and was able to reset the password again and figured out that he was using my old email address to keep getting into my account. I changed my e-mail for FB and changed all passwords to all e-mail accounts.

Why torture myself???

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I answered another call from stb exDH on my way home from work last night. He wants to "make it work", he thinks "we can start dating again", he is sorry that he never helped me around the house. He is sorry he never made SS show me respect and that he essentially dumped him on me and blamed me for his behavior, but acknowledged that I was never allowed to discipline. He said all the right things, offered to my "house slave" if I just give him another chance, so on etc.

After 3 weeks of radio silence... He called

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I knew it had to happen sooner or later but stb exDH sent me a text last night and called this morning. As I am sure you guessed, it was all about how much he missed me and how he doesn't know why it all fell apart. He loves me and so on... I just told him that there is no point in dragging this out. That I am sorry he is having a hard time and I hope he finds happiness. I told him that he was supposed to be my safe place forever but that was not the case. We can never go back.

Need perspective please...

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Ok, so things are going REALLY well Blum 3 . My bios and I are loving our new place, things are going amazing at work, I haven't even heard for AHH- all is well in the world... except for my commute until the end of the school year. It is currently taking me at least 1 hr 15 min to do my loop from my apartment to kids daycare back to work. Its even longer in the afternoon and traffic really sucks!!

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