TheSaneOne's blog

Off Topic - I am going in for IVF to transfer two 5 day blasts Monday. I will be a surrogate for a very dear couple.

I just wanted to ask for prayers and "sticky baby dust"

The account was overdrawn to the tune of $1400 and he left me here with all four kids. I called to see why he wasn't home and he said he forgot he had to do maintenance at work - he changed the password to the account thinking i couldn't check it and see just how bad it was so I called to inform him he did just that - then he admitted it - then i checked my email to find the dear john letter.

Actually - as my "H" pointed out last night, its been over for longer than we were happily married.

so, now to make the decesion, live the way we have been living, married but no relationship or just go ahead and break it all up - including the adoptions (hearing on 21st)

lol - my daughter's friend count is higher

Kidding, if you are on myspace, pm me and i will pm you my link

TheSaneOne

I am welcoming some blunt honesty here - if you have an opinion please let me hear it.

THIs is where I am. IF you care to read - I will try to keep it short but I am notorious for rambling....

MArried - almost a year - lived together 2. 6 kids total - 3 mine - 3 his, now through adoption, 4 mine - 5 his. 4 live here - 6 here now

So, she found out about the beach - told my SDs she was going to take them as well, that she has them a pool and a swingset and art supplies and all kinds of stuff and that everyone misses them so bad, etc.

I burst into tears. The judge signed the decree giving me RIGHTS to my SON (thats right, he isn't my step-son anymore!!)

We have a hearing in August t finalize everything and sign the paperwork to have his birth certificate changed. His mom never even called the court to contest!

I am a birthmom and stepmom. We get the two girls for the summer and holidays (some) as they live out of state (7 and 3). The BM sent the 7 yo with a prepaid phone and has been calling non-stop and expecting us to keep up with this phone and answer it when the SD is in the pool, etc. Then she sends messages demanding we have the 3 yo call her. One, she usually never calls on visitation and we have to go weeks sometimes without her letting us speak to them....

So, we get the two SD's that live out of state. The 8 yo comes with a pre-paid cell that she is insisting on calling her mom because "we never let her call her" well, she has never asked before and we get them very little - when she wants to call she does and when the bitch calls she talks to her. Everytime this happens she gets off the phone upset.

made me burst into tears....it read

mom-poem

there are many reasons why i love you but i am going to name just one. i have had other mother's in my life but you are the very best one.

love, Gav