happysomeday's blog

he never learns anything

Wed, 07 May 2008 08:40:27 -0700

So the one babysitter cancelled

The other babysitter couldn't do it

SD says she has to work

So H said to me "You don't want SS to watch him?"

What does it take to get this guy to ever stick to anything?

concert probably won't happen

Wed, 07 May 2008 06:38:24 -0700

well, since I of course don't want SS watching my son, and SD won't do it, AND the babysitter I asked declined at the last minute- I think we can't go to this concert.

The other day H was asking me some question about his taxes and I asked him, "did you file jointly?"

I got mad over salad

Tue, 06 May 2008 12:52:58 -0700

I feel stupid about having been so pissed about this- and I did not say anything to anyone, at least, because it would have been a stupid thing to argue about-

But I really wanted tuna nicois salad- and yesterday I bought all the ingredients, plus some other things, and ended up spending seventy dollars.

weirdo

Mon, 05 May 2008 11:13:06 -0700

yesterday H asked SD if she will watch my son for us to go to a concert on Wednesday(I will not let her babysit, but he asked her when I wasn't there)

He told me about it- he said that when he asked her, she said "Why didn't you invite me?"

add a couple strange things

Sun, 04 May 2008 11:09:31 -0700

Ok, forgot to mention in my long update

Yesterday SD came up to me and said "ARE you still moving out of this house?"

I said, I don't know. ANd she said "Well, if you are, I am moving with you"

weekend

Sun, 04 May 2008 10:55:33 -0700

Well, H finally got home on Friday night- I had cleaned the house and made kuba.
He got in a fight with SD that night about her wanting to go out. He didn't want her to, but she went.
When he got home, he was all nice to the cat "Hi cutie, come here, come see me"----acting all excited to see the cat- I told him look how you behave to the cat, and you haven't even given me a hug- he said, "you didn't hug me either"..so we hugged.

had to say something

Thu, 01 May 2008 13:59:17 -0700

H called me and said "I need you to pick up SS, but I don't know when"

First of all, he needs to be asking me if I'm busy- what if I had plans after work

Second of all- where is SS, he wasn't in school today because his elbow hurt

the rest of F'd up morning

Thu, 01 May 2008 07:43:38 -0700

So the stuff with SS is complete

Now let me explain how my own son drove me nuts

well, last night we were at k-mart, and he started looking at the clothes- he walked to the shirts on his own and was looking through them, which made me happy(he is so I let him pick out one

f'd up morning

Thu, 01 May 2008 07:23:17 -0700

Ok-
wow

well everyone drove me nuts today.

It seems we have a seriously bad pattern going on, that every single time H is out of town, SS doesn't go to school. I don't know what the difference is.

one more little thing

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 13:27:07 -0700

I went to use my lotion last night, that I put on every night, and it suddenly wasn't where I left it.

Of course, it was in SD's room.

I got pissed off and complained- I said something like "My lotion, that I use every night, that is always right here, is suddenly just GONE"

my friend and how he proves that all men are weird

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 13:12:06 -0700

I made a friend at work. I told him my whole life, we talked alot. He told me a lot about himself also, and I felt we really liked talking to each other, both seriously, and not. We make good friends and I think we care about each other(as friends)

good news and bad news

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 13:00:06 -0700

H called today and told me that the vet called and our cat's poop sample had a parasite, so she needs to get medicine- he was trying to tell me where to go to pick it up, but since SD made the appt without me, I don't even know what the place is!

the next crisis?

Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:04:53 -0700

hopefully not- over something so stupid as this

H is in a bad mood over some business thing going on- he said he's kind of upset.
then he said that he's on his way to go pick up his son to get his haircut...

and some compliments for me

Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:46:18 -0700

I'm not conceited- I just have been with H so long and he never compliments me, but I do have to hear and see him commenting and looking at other women

I sometimes feel pretty ugly.

As I wrote about before, I had gained enough weight since I met H that I felt dumpy and unattractive, didn't enjoy shopping, and always had problems finding the right clothes.

about the stealing thing

Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:24:12 -0700

just one thing I forgot to mention-

when we were at the mall, I came in a pair of work-outish pants, a random t-shirt that I found in the closet I'm forced to share with SD, and a hoodie

Well, SD came with a friend, and she whispered to me, "can you zip up your hoodie because that shirt is my friend's and she doesn't know I have it"